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I'm so torn!

Anonymous
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Ok I've been w my SO for about yr and a half. We live together. He's a gamer. Always has his phone playing a game or on the computer gaming. I seek attention from him. Cuddles. He insists he loves me but why barely show it? Why does gaming win?


My ex of seven yrs ago has been talking to me. We have remained friends over the years. He's going thru a divorce from his crazy ex. I have not cheated on my SO but I feel bad talking to someone else but can't help how he makes me feel! He appreciates me. Admires me. Buys me things just because. He's basically throwing himself at me.

My SO and I had a date night planned for fri night. Well we ended up in another argument. Finances are stressing him out and he's thinking about moving home bc of all his debt. I said chose love or money. He said he doesn't know. So I walked away saying move home and we can both be free to date. I went to a movie w my ex I get this high from him. He brings out happiness and just makes me feel on top of the world. My SO was still at the house when I returned and he said he doesn't want to leave. That he loves me too much. Ugh guess I'm just lost.
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 6, 2012 at 9:14 PM
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Nursesummer
by Silver Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 9:16 PM
He's an ex for a reason. Don't cheat. Be a honest woman.
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kjbennett26
by Silver Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 9:16 PM
You need to decide what YOU want
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Buggy979
by Platinum Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 9:17 PM
Choose what your heart wants.... Sometimes it is right!
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T-Rentsmommy06
by Gold Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 9:17 PM
Well, either you want to be with your so or not. It is sounding more not. Tell him you need some time apart to figure out what you want, and him moving home would be a good idea for a little while.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 6, 2012 at 9:20 PM
I am honest. He knew I went to the movie w my ex. I am not a cheater never will be.

We were young when we dated 7 yrs ago. Not a bad breakup


Quoting Nursesummer:

He's an ex for a reason. Don't cheat. Be a honest woman.

alison08
by Member on Oct. 6, 2012 at 9:20 PM
I'm in a similar situation. It really stinks :(
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