See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
DF and I are getting married in a little less than 2 weeks and he is driving me completely insane. It's been building up for a while but today was just the icing on the cake.
DS and I got up this morning around 7:30 and amazingly DF got up around 8 (he never gets up that early on weekends, and never gets up with me). I was going to ask if he could watch DS for a while so I could go to the grocery store and get some wedding stuff (things we were supposed to do together yesterday but DF's nap and going out to the bar took precedence). After staying up for about 5 minutes this morning, he went back to bed. DS and I left and went out to do our shopping. I think DF got back up around 11.
Anywho, I don't want to make this too long, but DF ended up doing absolutely NOTHING at all today. I busted ass all day shopping (two different occasions), potty training DS, cleaning, making pumpkin pie & pumpkin bread from scratch, the chili, etc. On top of this, I'm pregnant and still in the first trimester so feeling shitty accordingly. He did nothing. He made it quite clear that he wanted nothing more than to play video games and take a nap (both of which he did). He's been up for a couple hours now and just went back into the bedroom with homework and shut the door (which means we're not supposed to bother him). He has not thanked me for feeding him and admitted a while back that he was hungover (but even if he didn't have a hangover this whole day's scenario would have been the same).
I swear, lately I feel like we're not roommates. We never do anything together, we don't eat together, he sleeps in & does whatever he wants while I'm left to play house. It's driving me nuts. We've had a talk about this in the past and things got better for a while, but now it's just the same old thing. I'm starting to resent him. I know we really need to sit down and talk about this but I'm worried that I'm going to blow up because I'm so emotional over it.
What would you do? Has anybody else been through this?