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anyone here have multiple abortions?

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
I have had three... i also have two children. I have also had a miscarriage.

The abortions i do not regret... the first i was 17 with an abusive stalking boyfriend (it was at 18 wks)..

Second was after my two kids ... i was divorced in2003 .. so this was in 2006.. at 7 wks.. i was putting myself thru nursing school and barely getting by, raising two kids with no help. Working full time also

3rd...well.. i was finally getting financially stable, the man didnt want it... i coukdnt imagine being a single mom to THREE .. so i decided i couldn't raise it... that one is the only one i considered....

In the spirit of CM.... ask me anything! !
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 7, 2012 at 9:31 PM
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dommad2
by Platinum Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 9:45 PM

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MichelleSw
by CoolStory on Oct. 7, 2012 at 9:45 PM

No & No questions. Your life; you do with it as you see fit.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 7, 2012 at 9:45 PM
Thanks doll... :-)


Quoting Anonymous:

I've personally never had one but I'm absolutely pro-choice, and I've had friends and family that have had them. As long as you're cool with it, that's all that matters. <3 *hugs*

Quoting Anonymous:

Eh.... i have a suspicion there are more like me.. and internet people dont bum me out too much..



Plus i did what was best for my family at the time.. im ok with that





Quoting Anonymous:

I'm very glad you were able to make those decisions for yourself, and I am very sorry for what's about to happen to you in this thread. :(





LoganAndKennedy
by Silver Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 9:45 PM
I had one at 19 that I regret. .. 5 &6 years later I luckily had my two sweet healthy kidos. ..
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Josie_P
by on Oct. 7, 2012 at 9:46 PM

I haven't but I am pro-choice and what you do with your body is your decision.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 7, 2012 at 9:46 PM

It doesn't matter. It does not matter that you had an abortion or multiple ones  it does not matter who else has. All that matters is that you made a decision that you are ok with. It is your life and you do not-have to explain to anyone else why or how you lived it as it was yours.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 7, 2012 at 9:46 PM
Do you know what contraceptive is?
svolkov
by Emerald Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 9:46 PM
Well I certainly hope u have a more reliable method of bc. Like iud or implanon etc. That really breaks my heart. I am pro-life but can understand being young and stupid. Does it bother you at all? Or is it like "meh whatever?"


Quoting Anonymous:

At 17the i wasnt on bc... i was young and careless.. i was on bc in 2006 and 2010i but must have misses a pill.. i work swing...days and nights 12 hours... so sometimes ill miss a day..




Quoting svolkov:

Wow. U do know they make birth control that doesn't involve killing right?


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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 7, 2012 at 9:46 PM

No, i have had none. Im not a child killer. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 7, 2012 at 9:47 PM
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Or think that women that have had them are irresponsible sluts. The responsible cboice, for me, was to abort. Wasnt an easy choice...but it was right for where my life was.


Quoting celestegood:

 I am happy that you did what was best for your family.  I'm sorry for what these women will do to you in this post.


I can't get why people don't get the fact that its a very personal decision.


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