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*edit* abortions, no spanking, out of control kids and lazy parents

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Well I got to go to bed now, it was nice chatting with you ladies... I have to homeschool my children, and we are going to take family pics tomorrow of all of us and all of my children, and we are going to spend the day with my mom and dad while my dad teaches my dd how to ride her bike without training wheels...

So goodnight ladies and enjoy the conversations among yourselves :-)



What is this world coming to???

People are bragging about having multiple abortions, and don't believe in spanking but yet are on here asking for advice about how to deal with their out of control children... and parents are just being lazy...

Women grow up and learn how to parent, and find ways to not get pregnant so there would be no need for an abortion, keep your legs closed and stop having sex....there are all of these problems now that just came up in children that are mental, but the real problem is the parents, not the child...

First grow up and become an adult in your brain before preocreating or opening your legs up to the first loser who comes around.... and stop being so lazy...

I have never seen so many crazy people that I have seen on cm
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 7, 2012 at 10:13 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 7, 2012 at 11:24 PM
Lol I am raising my kids how I was raised and me and my parents have a great relationship... my sister is even raising her kids the same way and hers her teens now and they have a great relationship...

So no dear you are wrong... the ones who aren't punished correctly and they are in control are the ones who ends up hating their parents and not having great relationships with them... and those are the parents who rather be their friends...

And there are many I know who have been disciplined appropriately and learned right from wrong, because the parent was actually the parent and not the friend, and those are the ones who grow up having a great relationship with their parents... me and my parents are friends now, but when I was growing up, we didn't have a friendship, they were my parents and taught me right from wrong... we are close now


Quoting Anonymous:

It's okay, most parents are in denial. I will be sad for you, the day they leave you and tell you to fuck off, after all these years of thinking they love you because they are too afraid of you to admit the truth. 


Quoting Anonymous:

No my kids love me, and they respect me... yes they get spanked when they do wrong but that is to train them...they are awesome kids, and my oldest begged me to homeschool her, and we are homeschooling... I rarely have to spank but when I do, I get the point across and my children are well behave... we have tons of fun but they know who is in charge





Quoting Anonymous:

Do you think she degrades her kids like this? Bet the cower in fear everytime they hear her voice. I bet they are counting the days until their escape.



Quoting rnchelle93:

Wow, really? My mother has had two abortions, one before she had any kids, one after she had my youngest sister and had a tubal. I'm the oldest of four, and we were never hurt, abused, treated badly, anything. We had the best of everything, still do. She's an excellent mother.





Quoting Anonymous:

I never said they were all the same people... and I am sure you don't have well behaved kids... anyone can say anything on the internet but I am sure your kids run all over you just like a bunch of these women on the internet...







And in my honest opinion, you don't deserve the kids you have because you already murdered one of your children... and who knows what you will do to the others










Quoting Anonymous:

I had an aboriton, don't spank, and also have well behaved kids. How do you know the multi-abortion, non-spanking, out of control children, are the same people? 









Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Oct. 7, 2012 at 11:25 PM
You do realize some people get rapped or their life is in danger so they have an abortion.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 7, 2012 at 11:27 PM
No it sounds like you are


Quoting Anonymous:

You are a miserable excuse for a human being. 


Quoting Anonymous:

And no I don't feel horrible... I am actually living a good life with all of my children...



I was just stating facts and you didn't have to come into my post if you didn't like what I had to say... and I wasn't putting anyone down... I can't put someone down who already put themselves down





Quoting rnchelle93:

No, she put us first. She put her children first. She didn't have kids she couldn't afford. She's always put us ahead. She is an amazing mother, I'm so thankful every day that I have her when I see how poorly some mothers treat their children. But you, Ms. Anon, go ahead and judge. I pity you, BTW. It must be awful to feel so horrible about yourself that you have to put others down.





Quoting Anonymous:

No she is a selfish mothers and she puts her needs and wants ahead of her own children... she killed her children and you call that a good mother?? I called that a murderer, someone who should never have kids, and a selfish and inconsiderate person









Quoting rnchelle93:

Wow, really? My mother has had two abortions, one before she had any kids, one after she had my youngest sister and had a tubal. I'm the oldest of four, and we were never hurt, abused, treated badly, anything. We had the best of everything, still do. She's an excellent mother.









Quoting Anonymous:

I never said they were all the same people... and I am sure you don't have well behaved kids... anyone can say anything on the internet but I am sure your kids run all over you just like a bunch of these women on the internet...











And in my honest opinion, you don't deserve the kids you have because you already murdered one of your children... and who knows what you will do to the others













Quoting Anonymous:

I had an aboriton, don't spank, and also have well behaved kids. How do you know the multi-abortion, non-spanking, out of control children, are the same people? 









Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 7, 2012 at 11:28 PM
Excuses excuses excuses!!! How many excuses are you all going to come up with to justify abortions???


Quoting Anonymous:

You do realize some people get rapped or their life is in danger so they have an abortion.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 7, 2012 at 11:31 PM
It is not the truth... it is what you want to believe but it doesn't make it true...

And I am not spouting ignorance, just speaking the truth, and if it didn't bother you then you wouldn't even be on here trying to defend yourself or your mom


Quoting rnchelle93:

I'm not surprised that you don't believe the truth when it proves your ignorance as just that. I don't have to keep believing anything, I see it every time I check my grades, or throw up. But you're right, online anyone can say anything. It's so easy to spout ignorance online, especially when you hide behind the anonymous button.



Quoting Anonymous:

Keep thinking that, anyone can say anything on the internet but quite frankly I don't believe it






Quoting rnchelle93:

I didn't spread my legs or sleep around, I've never had willing sex. I'm pregnant though, because I was raped. So there goes that theory. My mother never spanked me. I was a straight A student. I will graduate with my ADN at 19 and I have a guaranteed full time position. I've never been in trouble with the law, I never had any kind of school troubles. I may be an idiot, I might not. But by making broad, unsubstantiated statements prove that you are. As does your anonymous status.







Quoting Anonymous:

No you can't because it will only be excuses and not facts... and remember, when you point a finger, you always have 3 pointing back at you so maybe you are the real idiot :-)










Quoting rnchelle93:

You are an idiot. I can disprove several of your statements.



Tinabee88
by Platinum Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 11:32 PM
I agree, people should, at the very least, be mature when they bring kids into this world. Kids should never have to mature YOU!


Quoting Anonymous:

What is this world coming to???



People are bragging about having multiple abortions, and don't believe in spanking but yet are on here asking for advice about how to deal with their out of control children... and parents are just being lazy...



Women grow up and learn how to parent, and find ways to not get pregnant so there would be no need for an abortion, keep your legs closed and stop having sex....there are all of these problems now that just came up in children that are mental, but the real problem is the parents, not the child...



First grow up and become an adult in your brain before preocreating or opening your legs up to the first loser who comes around.... and stop being so lazy...



I have never seen so many crazy people that I have seen on cm

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mestiza_07
by Bronze Member on Oct. 7, 2012 at 11:33 PM
I work as a nurse. Unfortunately the ER that I work at admits for every reason. Also this is for acute care not long term. Some are legit Axis 1 diagnosis but some are just just silly. I've seen kids as young as 3. And some talks with the parents seems more about their problems rather then the child. I've worked at this hospital for over 10 yrs first as an aide then a nurse. I've seen some of the same parents over the years bringing in siblings bc of the same issues with their previous child.



Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting mestiza_07:

Omg... I sooo agree!



I've worked in our psych ward a few times with kids. The kids were out of control but when I met the parents I understood why. They couldn't control their kids so they would send them to the hospital and ask for meds. But when ther parents weren't present the kids were fine.



I have a 4 yo ds that test limits but he knows right from wrong. I use spanking as a last resort but its still an option when other methods fail.





In what role were you working on a child psychiatric ward? I am a clinical therapist at a large mental health agency and it is pretty darn difficult with managed care to admit a child in patient, they would have to have an Axis 1 diagnosis.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Oct. 7, 2012 at 11:34 PM

It's okay, really. I am sure you feel your way is the right way. I am sure you think you have good relationships with your kids. I am sure you think you know how all of the rest of us parent our kids, and how our kids behave. You are just a magical ray of sunshine, who knows everything. That is a gift, and I am glad you are using it for the greater good. 



Quoting Anonymous:

Lol I am raising my kids how I was raised and me and my parents have a great relationship... my sister is even raising her kids the same way and hers her teens now and they have a great relationship...

So no dear you are wrong... the ones who aren't punished correctly and they are in control are the ones who ends up hating their parents and not having great relationships with them... and those are the parents who rather be their friends...

And there are many I know who have been disciplined appropriately and learned right from wrong, because the parent was actually the parent and not the friend, and those are the ones who grow up having a great relationship with their parents... me and my parents are friends now, but when I was growing up, we didn't have a friendship, they were my parents and taught me right from wrong... we are close now


Quoting Anonymous:

It's okay, most parents are in denial. I will be sad for you, the day they leave you and tell you to fuck off, after all these years of thinking they love you because they are too afraid of you to admit the truth. 


Quoting Anonymous:

No my kids love me, and they respect me... yes they get spanked when they do wrong but that is to train them...they are awesome kids, and my oldest begged me to homeschool her, and we are homeschooling... I rarely have to spank but when I do, I get the point across and my children are well behave... we have tons of fun but they know who is in charge





Quoting Anonymous:

Do you think she degrades her kids like this? Bet the cower in fear everytime they hear her voice. I bet they are counting the days until their escape.



Quoting rnchelle93:

Wow, really? My mother has had two abortions, one before she had any kids, one after she had my youngest sister and had a tubal. I'm the oldest of four, and we were never hurt, abused, treated badly, anything. We had the best of everything, still do. She's an excellent mother.





Quoting Anonymous:

I never said they were all the same people... and I am sure you don't have well behaved kids... anyone can say anything on the internet but I am sure your kids run all over you just like a bunch of these women on the internet...







And in my honest opinion, you don't deserve the kids you have because you already murdered one of your children... and who knows what you will do to the others










Quoting Anonymous:

I had an aboriton, don't spank, and also have well behaved kids. How do you know the multi-abortion, non-spanking, out of control children, are the same people? 










Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 7, 2012 at 11:34 PM
I am not judging... I just stated a few things and you came on here trying to justify what your mom did... you didn't have to come on my thread if you didn't like what I had to say...

You may be her children but she killed her other children, your brothers or sisters that you never got to meet for her own selfish reasons


Quoting rnchelle93:

You don't even know why she made the choices she did, and you feel qualified to judge her? She didn't kill any kids, my sisters and brother and I are here. We are her children, children she wouldn't have had if she hadn't aborted her first pregnancy. She didn't kill anything. You won't believe anything, but since you're anon, I'm sure you're just saying this. Or maybe you really are so judgmental and ignorant. Who knows. I don't really care top much either way. I'm just thankful that my mother is nothing like you. I have an amazing mother who had taught me how to be a strong woman and she is my hero.



Quoting Anonymous:

no she didn't... she killed her other children cause they were an inconvenience to her... that is a sorry excuse for a mother... there is no way around that






Quoting rnchelle93:

No, she put us first. She put her children first. She didn't have kids she couldn't afford. She's always put us ahead. She is an amazing mother, I'm so thankful every day that I have her when I see how poorly some mothers treat their children. But you, Ms. Anon, go ahead and judge. I pity you, BTW. It must be awful to feel so horrible about yourself that you have to put others down.







Quoting Anonymous:

No she is a selfish mothers and she puts her needs and wants ahead of her own children... she killed her children and you call that a good mother?? I called that a murderer, someone who should never have kids, and a selfish and inconsiderate person










Quoting rnchelle93:

Wow, really? My mother has had two abortions, one before she had any kids, one after she had my youngest sister and had a tubal. I'm the oldest of four, and we were never hurt, abused, treated badly, anything. We had the best of everything, still do. She's an excellent mother.











Quoting Anonymous:

I never said they were all the same people... and I am sure you don't have well behaved kids... anyone can say anything on the internet but I am sure your kids run all over you just like a bunch of these women on the internet...













And in my honest opinion, you don't deserve the kids you have because you already murdered one of your children... and who knows what you will do to the others














Quoting Anonymous:

I had an aboriton, don't spank, and also have well behaved kids. How do you know the multi-abortion, non-spanking, out of control children, are the same people? 





rnchelle93
by on Oct. 7, 2012 at 11:35 PM
Thanks for the laugh. And I'm sorry you don't understand how someone might feel the need to state truth in the face of blatant ignorance. However, I've dealt with people like you many times. I'm done. Ignorance can't be changed, just pitied.

Quoting Anonymous:

It is not the truth... it is what you want to believe but it doesn't make it true...



And I am not spouting ignorance, just speaking the truth, and if it didn't bother you then you wouldn't even be on here trying to defend yourself or your mom




Quoting rnchelle93:

I'm not surprised that you don't believe the truth when it proves your ignorance as just that. I don't have to keep believing anything, I see it every time I check my grades, or throw up. But you're right, online anyone can say anything. It's so easy to spout ignorance online, especially when you hide behind the anonymous button.





Quoting Anonymous:

Keep thinking that, anyone can say anything on the internet but quite frankly I don't believe it








Quoting rnchelle93:

I didn't spread my legs or sleep around, I've never had willing sex. I'm pregnant though, because I was raped. So there goes that theory. My mother never spanked me. I was a straight A student. I will graduate with my ADN at 19 and I have a guaranteed full time position. I've never been in trouble with the law, I never had any kind of school troubles. I may be an idiot, I might not. But by making broad, unsubstantiated statements prove that you are. As does your anonymous status.









Quoting Anonymous:

No you can't because it will only be excuses and not facts... and remember, when you point a finger, you always have 3 pointing back at you so maybe you are the real idiot :-)












Quoting rnchelle93:

You are an idiot. I can disprove several of your statements.



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