If your husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, fiancée, significant other were at a job they hated! Just because the pay was good, and benefits were good. And you hated where you lived. And they got the opportunity for a job that they would like or love, at a lower pay, not as good benefits, but in a place you have wanted to move, would you encourage him/her to take the job?
Let me know if that doesn't make sense. Thanks.