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I don't think watching porn is cheating.

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by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:10 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:14 AM
It's probably hidden somewhere.


Quoting lilbit04:

I do...I think it's a disgrace to a marriage...but that's just me tho. Caught my DH watching it several times and gave him the choice me or the trash bc I got tired of it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:14 AM
I agree with this

Quoting Anonymous:

I don't think so either but some women thinks it's disrespectful to them. Guess I can understand why. Everyone has an opinion tho.
lilbit04
by Bronze Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:17 AM
He would watch it via the net and all those sights are blocked...he doesn't have a smart phone so no worries there plus I know that he wouldn't want to lose me or the kids.


Quoting Anonymous:

It's probably hidden somewhere.




Quoting lilbit04:

I do...I think it's a disgrace to a marriage...but that's just me tho. Caught my DH watching it several times and gave him the choice me or the trash bc I got tired of it.


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MrsRinehart2010
by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:17 AM

I think it depends on how you look at it. I knew a guy (wont name  names). He was married to a beautiful young lady, well they never had sex as in a mean the sex stoped at 2 months of being married. He was addicted to porn, he said he relized later after much therapy that there was a emotional conection to the porn in some wierd strange way, so I guess in some cases you could emotionally cheating with it. Wierd I know but  I see no harm in it as long as you guys are still having regular sex an porn doesnt have an effect on you realtionships. I could care less if my husbnad looks at porn as long as im getting mine regualarly lol , for me it doestn do any thing i need to have the contact with another person.

CharlieSays
by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:17 AM
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I used to think it was. Then I grew up.
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kmorales7690
by Ruby Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:19 AM

 well this is a new argument... I don't like it, but my husband respects that, and knows that if he needs something he can just come to me for it!

LovelyJay512
by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:19 AM
Lmao.

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tinkerbellbay
by Gold Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:19 AM
Agree
arpazia
by Platinum Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:19 AM
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That's fine for your marriage. We are not all the same, we do not all feel or think the same. It's cheating in some marriages (not mine) the end ;)
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:23 AM
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Cool. Every relationship is different, every person is different. Some people think that a married man having sex with someone other than his wife is cheating, some don't. Every marriage has their own set of rules, things that are unacceptable or deal breakers. 

Of course this post will likely have the replies: "At least he isn't cheating" and "Every man does it." I say, why does a woman have to pick between 2 things that hurt her? Would you rather have a broken arm or leg? Neither would be the most common sense answer. And of course not every single man on the planet watches pornography. I'm not big on making sexist blanket statements.

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