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I don't think watching porn is cheating.

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by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:10 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:31 AM
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Good to know your opinion, and because it's an opinion, it means that neither side is wrong in their personal decisions and thoughts on the subject.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:31 AM
I don't either, communication is key. Both have to feel confident enough in themselves to not feel threatened by it
Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:31 AM
Eh. I don't consider it an issue until it has an effect on my relationship, and not a good one. If it's used sparingly and isn't affecting my sex life and satisfaction, I'm fine with it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 12 on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:32 AM

i don't either i think that women who think porn is cheating have really bad insecurity issues they need to work out.

having said that; i do think that some men take watching porn to an extreme. those men who are "addicted" to porn to the point where it interferes with their everyday lives, i think have a problem... lol

JadsW
by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:32 AM

Porn

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EmilysMom2010
by Ruby Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:32 AM
Some men look. Some men don't.
Women need to stop trying to change the "porn guy" and find a guy that doesn't watch.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 13 on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:32 AM

I think it is.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 13 on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:34 AM

You can laugh all you want but I think its is. I know there are some woman out there who are also ok with thire husbands going to strippers clubs getting lap dances. No thats not acceptable with me.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 12 on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:36 AM

even if your DH doesn't openly admit he watches porn, anytime he looks at another women in a sexual way (un related to how he feels about you or his attraction to you) then he is cheating then too. i bet you have been "cheated on" a lot inside your DH's head and you don't even know about it or know how many times. oh yes, and every time he jacks off to someone other then you its also cheating so it makes his cheating number even higher...

Quoting TimandMely4ever:

When we said "I Do" at the marriage altar ("forsaking all others...), we were saying "I Don't" to anyone outside of the marriage.  Porn is a slap in the face to the one we made those vows to.  No way around it, it's cheating.  Now, if you take cheating lightly, that's a different matter.


BamaMommy2
by Angel.N.Disguise on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:36 AM

I think it depends on the individuals in each relationship. What's not considered cheating to you, may be considered cheating in someone else's marriage.

With that being said, I don't care of my husband watches porn.

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