i don't either i think that women who think porn is cheating have really bad insecurity issues they need to work out.
having said that; i do think that some men take watching porn to an extreme. those men who are "addicted" to porn to the point where it interferes with their everyday lives, i think have a problem... lol
Women need to stop trying to change the "porn guy" and find a guy that doesn't watch.
even if your DH doesn't openly admit he watches porn, anytime he looks at another women in a sexual way (un related to how he feels about you or his attraction to you) then he is cheating then too. i bet you have been "cheated on" a lot inside your DH's head and you don't even know about it or know how many times. oh yes, and every time he jacks off to someone other then you its also cheating so it makes his cheating number even higher...
Quoting TimandMely4ever:When we said "I Do" at the marriage altar ("forsaking all others...), we were saying "I Don't" to anyone outside of the marriage. Porn is a slap in the face to the one we made those vows to. No way around it, it's cheating. Now, if you take cheating lightly, that's a different matter.
I think it depends on the individuals in each relationship. What's not considered cheating to you, may be considered cheating in someone else's marriage.
With that being said, I don't care of my husband watches porn.
Do you ever get hit on even looking a mess?
Why inflict this silly cosmetic pain on a baby!?!
- Traceyssel
on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:10 AM