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I don't think watching porn is cheating.

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by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:10 AM
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StrangeDays
by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:37 AM
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It's not cheating, but it could be disrespectful in certain contexts. I'm a full supporter of watching porn with your spouse, whether it is to spice things up, get new ideas, etc. However, if my husband chose to watch porn over being with me, repeatedly, I would be hurt and upset and more than likely grant him the same courtesy ;)
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Apr1l
by Gold Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:39 AM
Well put

Quoting Anonymous:

Well yippee for you-but for others it is. Mentally...emotionally it is destructive. If your partner is focussed on watching others they're not focussed on you. Cheating isn't just a physical act.

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Ms.Rios11.28.05
by Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:42 AM

It annoys me when women talk shit about other women who are not ok with porn. Every relationship is different and everyone has different things that they consider cheating or not ok with in their relationship..that doesn't make them stupid or wrong..just means they're different. And no, I don't consider my husband looking at porn or thinking a girl on the street is cute cheating, however, I won't judge someone who does. I am not ok with my husband going to strip clubs or especially getting lap dances..doesn't make me wrong even though there's lots of females who are totally fine with their husbands going. People really need to stop worrying about how other people are in their marriages and think about their own.

Beautiful31mom
by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:45 AM

Ok well, in our marriage,We do think watching porn is cheating, we also think it is disrespectful and gross. 



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Anonymous
by Anonymous 14 on Oct. 9, 2012 at 5:34 AM

I don't agree, I doubt your husband has you on his mind while watching this trash.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 14 on Oct. 9, 2012 at 5:34 AM


Quoting Beautiful31mom:

Ok well, in our marriage,We do think watching porn is cheating, we also think it is disrespectful and gross. 



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I agree, I think it's nasty!

AccidentalAdult
by on Oct. 9, 2012 at 5:38 AM

I don't think it is, either. Unless it's replacing our sex life, I don't view it as a problem. SO sometimes works out of town for weeks at a time. Although when he and the other two guys on his crew have to share a hotel room while working out of town, he is limited to sexting, poor guy.

AnastasiaKorsh
by on Oct. 9, 2012 at 5:39 AM


Quoting Anonymous:

Cool. Every relationship is different, every person is different. Some people think that a married man having sex with someone other than his wife is cheating, some don't. Every marriage has their own set of rules, things that are unacceptable or deal breakers. 

Of course this post will likely have the replies: "At least he isn't cheating" and "Every man does it." I say, why does a woman have to pick between 2 things that hurt her? Would you rather have a broken arm or leg? Neither would be the most common sense answer. And of course not every single man on the planet watches pornography. I'm not big on making sexist blanket statements.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 15 on Oct. 9, 2012 at 5:40 AM
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If it is, I've cheated..A LOT!
AccidentalAdult
by on Oct. 9, 2012 at 5:41 AM

LMAO

Quoting Anonymous:

If it is, I've cheated..A LOT!



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