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I don't think watching porn is cheating.

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by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:10 AM
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mysticalmalissa
by Platinum Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 5:42 AM
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I dont have a problem with it either. If I find a cool site, I will sign my husband up. lol

I do laugh when I read about women not "allowing" their husband to look.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 15 on Oct. 9, 2012 at 5:46 AM
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We watch porn sometimes, while having sex. He isn't thinking about those girls, he isn't thinking about me. He is thinking about sex. That's all. And usually the porn gets us so hot that the sex is amazing. This is fucking.

We make love frequently. No porn. We are connected and in sync mentally and physically. Spiritually. But who wants that all the time? Who had the time? I want a good fuck sometimes.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 16 on Oct. 9, 2012 at 5:49 AM
mentally and emotionally destructive -how so?
This is not a dig. I'm genuinely curious and am asking you to expand your idea.

Thanks!


Quoting Anonymous:

Well yippee for you-but for others it is. Mentally...emotionally it is destructive. If your partner is focussed on watching others they're not focussed on you. Cheating isn't just a physical act.



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Anonymous
by Anonymous 17 on Oct. 9, 2012 at 5:50 AM
Ok. That's your opinion.
3gr8tKids
by Gold Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 5:56 AM
Im with you on the strip club thing.
Thats physical contact. And frankly I'm not OK with my man giving another women money.


Quoting Ms.Rios11.28.05:

It annoys me when women talk shit about other women who are not ok with porn. Every relationship is different and everyone has different things that they consider cheating or not ok with in their relationship..that doesn't make them stupid or wrong..just means they're different. And no, I don't consider my husband looking at porn or thinking a girl on the street is cute cheating, however, I won't judge someone who does. I am not ok with my husband going to strip clubs or especially getting lap dances..doesn't make me wrong even though there's lots of females who are totally fine with their husbands going. People really need to stop worrying about how other people are in their marriages and think about their own.


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Devious333
by Ruby Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 5:59 AM
For you that is okay. You have your opinion but it doesn't make those who think/feel differently any less. If they feel it is cheating or disrespectful then let them.
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Devious333
by Ruby Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 6:01 AM
Agreed. Not everyone has to feel the same about porn or strip clubs, even.

Quoting Ms.Rios11.28.05:

It annoys me when women talk shit about other women who are not ok with porn. Every relationship is different and everyone has different things that they consider cheating or not ok with in their relationship..that doesn't make them stupid or wrong..just means they're different. And no, I don't consider my husband looking at porn or thinking a girl on the street is cute cheating, however, I won't judge someone who does. I am not ok with my husband going to strip clubs or especially getting lap dances..doesn't make me wrong even though there's lots of females who are totally fine with their husbands going. People really need to stop worrying about how other people are in their marriages and think about their own.

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1stpreggers
by on Oct. 9, 2012 at 6:03 AM
Ppl are crazy nowadays!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 18 on Oct. 9, 2012 at 6:05 AM
Every guy looks at other women, but not every guy looks at porn or wacks off. I know my fiancé checks out other girls, but I also know that he doesn't look at porn and he doesn't masturbate.

Quoting Anonymous:

even if your DH doesn't openly admit he watches porn, anytime he looks at another women in a sexual way (un related to how he feels about you or his attraction to you) then he is cheating then too. i bet you have been "cheated on" a lot inside your DH's head and you don't even know about it or know how many times. oh yes, and every time he jacks off to someone other then you its also cheating so it makes his cheating number even higher...

Quoting TimandMely4ever:

When we said "I Do" at the marriage altar ("forsaking all others...), we were saying "I Don't" to anyone outside of the marriage.  Porn is a slap in the face to the one we made those vows to.  No way around it, it's cheating.  Now, if you take cheating lightly, that's a different matter.


noble427
by Bronze Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 6:11 AM
I agree
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