Last night we had sex. While he was on top of me, I asked him to make room so I could, you know, play with myself during the activities. I've never done that before in our 3 years of committed relationship-ness, so it shocked him. He kept screwing up my thing and I kept asking him to scoot back until he said "WELL WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU WANT ME TO DO?". I just started crying and pushed him off of me. Then he felt bad and tried again and I asked if I could get my vibrator (Never asked him that, either) and he got all offended. When I finally explained to him that IT HURTS FOR ME TO HAVE SEX BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT TO BUY LUBE so I thought for some reason my vibrator or playing with myself would help. It only caused problems. He finished, I didn't, and now I have a vagina that feels like it's wearing a sandpaper tampon.