my sex life is f***ed
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Last night we had sex. While he was on top of me, I asked him to make room so I could, you know, play with myself during the activities. I've never done that before in our 3 years of committed relationship-ness, so it shocked him. He kept screwing up my thing and I kept asking him to scoot back until he said "WELL WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU WANT ME TO DO?". I just started crying and pushed him off of me. Then he felt bad and tried again and I asked if I could get my vibrator (Never asked him that, either) and he got all offended. When I finally explained to him that IT HURTS FOR ME TO HAVE SEX BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT TO BUY LUBE so I thought for some reason my vibrator or playing with myself would help. It only caused problems. He finished, I didn't, and now I have a vagina that feels like it's wearing a sandpaper tampon.
What she said.... && lord my hubby loves it when I do all that.......
Quoting Anonymous:
Foreplay. It's natural and works wonders. He could learn a thing or two from your guidance!
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He got offended as if I thought he wasn't enough.
Quoting lilmoosesmom:What she said.... && lord my hubby loves it when I do all that.......
Quoting Anonymous:
Foreplay. It's natural and works wonders. He could learn a thing or two from your guidance!
Sounds like he was being a little selfish. I would tell him to buy lube or learn to live without it.
it was a shot to his ego honey. he needs to get use to the idea that he isn't doing something right. you might have to take him by the hand and actually show him what you want done. or talk to him as if he is a child. its ridiculous really, but he's a man. you can always provide the lube...lather up before he comes around. lol best of luck.
Quoting Anonymous:I've kept it a secret for a long time so I don't think he understands it, but I want it to be about me just once.
Quoting Anonymous:
Foreplay. It's natural and works wonders. He could learn a thing or two from your guidance!
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Have you ever kept a secret from your spouse?