Serious question. DHs drinking really bothers me. The thing is in the entire 7 years we have been together, I have only seen him drunk a handful of times. But when he is home he always has a beer in his hand. He drinks every single day, and I would say at least 3 beers a day. I'm not sure what to do because he's not a problem drinker, he isn't mean or abusive, he doesn't go out to drink, he's home with us helping around the house and playing with the kids. It doesn't interfere with his job or anything.
I feel like I have no ground to stand on complaining about his drinking. And I don't know what I can do about it.
Edit to add: in case anyone else comments I said at least 3 beers every single day. He usually drinks much more than that, and he goes through withdrawl if he goes a day without beer.