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Don't claim his last name on Facebook...

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

... if your ass isn't married!!

This annoys the shit out of me. I have three friends on Facebook (people that I know personally - two family members and one old friend) who have their boyfriend's last name listed as their on.

Don't play wifey if you aren't married. And if you don't feel the need for "a piece of paper" or "vows are just words" then fine, but don't parade around pretending to be something you aren't. Shit's worse than wearing a big ass CZ wedding ring. Fake! (which is an entirely different debate...).

I take pride in being married. Marriage is a holy unity to me. It isn't something I take lightly and neither should anyone else. So for a 16yo who's knocked up by her boyfriend and living with his parents to carry on like she's married... yeah, *eyeroll*. Or for a woman who's been living with her baby daddy for 3 years, but the man won't actually propose to her, to wear his last name like she's married. Ugh.

I am proud to call myself my husband's wife and proud to have his last name.

Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:39 PM
Replies (11-20):
manicMOM_DLC
by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:44 PM

god, I thought people had gotten over this one.....

 

who gives a rat's ass?!

jbirchard
by Gold Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:46 PM
1 mom liked this
I wondering how exactly this is affecting your life?
Who the F cares.
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Wydowness
by Kusabi on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:46 PM
1 mom liked this
Lol
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Roxygurl
by Emerald Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:46 PM
Yeah I don't care, I have more important things to worry about than what someone else calls themselves.

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la_bella_vita
by Bella on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:48 PM
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 Yeah, I have friends that do that too and *gasp* I don't care

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:48 PM
Fortunately for you, your opinion literally means nothing to me. Thank you for categorizing yourself in to all the reasons this site SUCKS!
kkps725
by Gold Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:48 PM
I agree lol it gets me too..
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:49 PM
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Then why are you here?

Just keep in mind that most of your REALLY married friends and family probably feel the same way.

Quoting Anonymous:

Fortunately for you, your opinion literally means nothing to me. Thank you for categorizing yourself in to all the reasons this site SUCKS!


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:50 PM
I agree!
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:50 PM
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People who value the sanctity of marriage.

Quoting manicMOM_DLC:

god, I thought people had gotten over this one.....


who gives a rat's ass?!


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