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Don't claim his last name on Facebook...

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

... if your ass isn't married!!

This annoys the shit out of me. I have three friends on Facebook (people that I know personally - two family members and one old friend) who have their boyfriend's last name listed as their on.

Don't play wifey if you aren't married. And if you don't feel the need for "a piece of paper" or "vows are just words" then fine, but don't parade around pretending to be something you aren't. Shit's worse than wearing a big ass CZ wedding ring. Fake! (which is an entirely different debate...).

I take pride in being married. Marriage is a holy unity to me. It isn't something I take lightly and neither should anyone else. So for a 16yo who's knocked up by her boyfriend and living with his parents to carry on like she's married... yeah, *eyeroll*. Or for a woman who's been living with her baby daddy for 3 years, but the man won't actually propose to her, to wear his last name like she's married. Ugh.

I am proud to call myself my husband's wife and proud to have his last name.

Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:39 PM
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spicy_n_sweet
by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:51 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

You're too Gangnam Style for me!

I don't know. She doesn't come across as all that posh,upper crust, and just generally rolling the Won.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:51 PM

Oh STFU

bustybee
by Buzz Lightyear on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:51 PM

if they arehappy just let them be happy

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:52 PM

I'm mostly annoyed with my 16yo pregnant cousin who all of a sudden thinks that because she moved in with her baby's daddy, that entitles her to his last name. Psh.

Quoting Jamie1972:

It annoys me too but I dont have a fit over it.


AubreeGrace17
by Platinum Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:52 PM

Nor beautiful or luxurious.

Quoting spicy_n_sweet:


Quoting Anonymous:

You're too Gangnam Style for me!

I don't know. She doesn't come across as all that posh,upper crust, and just generally rolling the Won.



Grumpylilpixy
by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:53 PM
1 mom liked this
Dude post that as ur status.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:53 PM
Then value YOUR MARRIAGE

Quoting Anonymous:

People who value the sanctity of marriage.


Quoting manicMOM_DLC:

god, I thought people had gotten over this one.....




who gives a rat's ass?!


Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:53 PM

rolling on floor

Ayla-bellesmom
by Gold Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:54 PM
Who cares. It doesn't even remotely affect you, or your marriage.

You think marriage is serious? Great, take YOUR marriage seriously. See how simple?
QueenBof6
by Ruby Member on Oct. 8, 2012 at 11:54 PM
I'll call myself whatever I want thank you very much.
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