This is my family issue of the day.
My opinion in this. Teenagers will have sex if they decide to. All you can really do is give them the knowledge they need on sex and protection and hope for the best. No, I am not saying you should support them having sex. You cant keep her locked up forever. If you do she will rebel and it will turn out worse. She is a junior in hs. She makes good grades. She goes to all the hs activities like any normal junior. She is not a trouble maker at all. I think my family should be thankful she was honest mom and me. She could have easily said she wasnt. Atleast this way she can get bc.
My mom agrees with me. Surely she is disappointed, so am I. My older sister is the problem. She is blaming my parents for my sister losing her virginity. Saying my lil sister shouldnt have been alone with this guy and yada yada. He is 17. imo I think my sister can do better. She is gorgeous and hasa good head on her shoulders. Other than this sex thing. But we cant judge her forever because she had sex. Evil bf is a different post all together. So, moving on...
My oldre sister said something that pissed me off. She says she just doesnt want my lil sister to turn out like we did. What? I was unaware I turned out bad. I didnt get pregnant when I was 16. Not bashing anyone who did, but that was a completely different thing all together. I did lose my virginity when I was 15. But I went on to graduate hs and college. I had my son when I was 19, but legally I was an adult.
My older sister on the other hand lost it at 14 and went on to do every guy she ever met. Dropped out of hs, got a rep of being a whore, had 2 kids before she was 20. Boith of them got takin away and my parents are raising them. She got addicted to meth. Thank god she finally grew up in her mid 20s. Now she is doing ok. She is married and has another child that she raises and I am proud of her. The point here is it doesnt always hurt your future, like she is claiming. It did hers because that was the life she chose. I just dont think she needs to be blaming my parents. There is no way this could have been avoided if my lil sister wanted it to happen.
Its not like every 16 yr old gets pregnant. I know alot do, but take a moment to see how many didnt. Like I said I dont support this and I am disappointed. But I love my sister and I think the answer is not to fight with her. The answer is to give her knowledge and birth control incase it happends again. She says it wont, but I know eventually it will.
Ok go ahead, bash me to a pulp. I just want other opinions on this