I don't know how to do this (adult)

[Anonymous]

First, yes, I'm grateful to have a husband that is so into me, and so attentive.  I work from home, kids are not here with me during the day.  Yes he has a job that allows him to do this, he has a desk job for the military.  

My DH every now and then, and today being one of those days, sends me naked pictures of himself while he is at work.  When we are IM'ing he talks dirty to me and wants me to do the same.  I do it, but I feel so uncomfortable.  I just don't know what to say and when he asks me something, well, its a good thing he can't see my face.  LOL

It makes me uncomfortable.  He is full of complements when I do reciprocate though.  And sex tonight I'm sure will be amazing.  

But oh how I wish I was more comfortable with all of this.

[nathansmommy331]

More practice.

[mommy_me]

 lol just watch a porn with lots of dirty talk in it

[armywifey26]

I am the same way. I think it is sexy when DH talks dirty but I think I sound absolutely ridiculous. I just don't have that sultry, husky, sexy kind of voice. So I just sound like an idiot. At least I do to my own ears. LOL. But I give it my best effort when he wants me to. 

[Anonymous]

Why? Seems it would be easy to do it over text. 

[Anonymous]

Tell him "oh baby when your dick is slipping in and out of my vagina i'd really enjoy sticking a dildo up your ass... Slow then hard & fast"
Pretty sure he'll back off

[Anonymous]

I know exactly how you feel. I can't do dirty talk. I can't type the words or bring the sounds out of my mouth. I JUST CAN'T DO IT! I mean, I enjoy that kinda stuff, but I can't do it.

I'm more of a submissive. I like to keep quiet and do as I'm told.

And no, I was like this way before the "50 Shades of Gray" BS. Since I was a teen I have been kinky and submissive but quiet.

[Anonymous]

I can't do it either, and I really want to. My dh loves it on the very rare occassions that I'm able to do it, but most of the time, if I even think about it, my face turns bright red, which is a huge turn off. And I feel like an idiot every time I even think about sending him a dirty text :( I never know what to say!

[CuriousArentYa]

I'm the same way. We have been together 13 years and I am still uncomfortable in the bedroom. I feel like a virgin each time not knowing what to do. Yet he knows this and he is very supportive of me and leads me the way he wants to go and he knows what it takes to make me um happy lol. God I love that man.

[LadyBugMom09]

Fake it till you make it. LOL

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Quoting armywifey26:

I am the same way. I think it is sexy when DH talks dirty but I think I sound absolutely ridiculous. I just don't have that sultry, husky, sexy kind of voice. So I just sound like an idiot. At least I do to my own ears. LOL. But I give it my best effort when he wants me to. 

Yes I feel so stupid!  LOL