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I don't know how to do this (adult)

Anonymous
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First, yes, I'm grateful to have a husband that is so into me, and so attentive.  I work from home, kids are not here with me during the day.  Yes he has a job that allows him to do this, he has a desk job for the military.  

My DH every now and then, and today being one of those days, sends me naked pictures of himself while he is at work.  When we are IM'ing he talks dirty to me and wants me to do the same.  I do it, but I feel so uncomfortable.  I just don't know what to say and when he asks me something, well, its a good thing he can't see my face.  LOL

It makes me uncomfortable.  He is full of complements when I do reciprocate though.  And sex tonight I'm sure will be amazing.  

But oh how I wish I was more comfortable with all of this.


Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 9, 2012 at 12:10 PM
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nathansmommy331
by Silver Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 12:15 PM
More practice.
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mommy_me
by ~The Three B's~ on Oct. 9, 2012 at 12:17 PM

 lol just watch a porn with lots of dirty talk in it

armywifey26
by Krissy on Oct. 9, 2012 at 12:18 PM

I am the same way. I think it is sexy when DH talks dirty but I think I sound absolutely ridiculous. I just don't have that sultry, husky, sexy kind of voice. So I just sound like an idiot. At least I do to my own ears. LOL. But I give it my best effort when he wants me to. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 9, 2012 at 12:18 PM

Why? Seems it would be easy to do it over text. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 9, 2012 at 12:19 PM
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Tell him "oh baby when your dick is slipping in and out of my vagina i'd really enjoy sticking a dildo up your ass... Slow then hard & fast"
Pretty sure he'll back off
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 9, 2012 at 12:20 PM
I know exactly how you feel. I can't do dirty talk. I can't type the words or bring the sounds out of my mouth. I JUST CAN'T DO IT! I mean, I enjoy that kinda stuff, but I can't do it.

I'm more of a submissive. I like to keep quiet and do as I'm told.

And no, I was like this way before the "50 Shades of Gray" BS. Since I was a teen I have been kinky and submissive but quiet.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 9, 2012 at 12:20 PM

I can't do it either, and I really want to. My dh loves it on the very rare occassions that I'm able to do it, but most of the time, if I even think about it, my face turns bright red, which is a huge turn off. And I feel like an idiot every time I even think about sending him a dirty text :( I never know what to say!

CuriousArentYa
by Platinum Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 12:21 PM
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I'm the same way. We have been together 13 years and I am still uncomfortable in the bedroom. I feel like a virgin each time not knowing what to do. Yet he knows this and he is very supportive of me and leads me the way he wants to go and he knows what it takes to make me um happy lol. God I love that man.

LadyBugMom09
by Platinum Member on Oct. 9, 2012 at 12:21 PM
Fake it till you make it. LOL
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 9, 2012 at 12:21 PM


Quoting armywifey26:

I am the same way. I think it is sexy when DH talks dirty but I think I sound absolutely ridiculous. I just don't have that sultry, husky, sexy kind of voice. So I just sound like an idiot. At least I do to my own ears. LOL. But I give it my best effort when he wants me to. 

Yes I feel so stupid!  LOL

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