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Um, really?

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

So I know this bitch, right? She's always whining about not having a man, why is it sooo haaarrrdd to find a good guy! when am I gonna find a man who will take care of me and the kids? yadda yadda blah blah blah. She's got 4 kids, all with different fathers. None of the guys stuck around. All but one are drug addicts and deadbeats. Any guy who is being nice to her, she thinks is in love with her. A guy hangs out with her once, she thinks they're dating. If he flirts with her? Forget it, she's ready to give it up! When the guy pulls away (as they inevitably do) because she's moving way too fast, she complains is not a real man...In short, she wants a man so bad to love her and take care of her and all her kids, that she can act pretty desperate.

To be honest, this friend of mine is really starting to get on my nerves. She asks me for advice, but will get angry and upset if you give it to her straight. Anything close to resembling the truth, and she will lash out...say "how dare you" or "I thought you were my friend!"...get her mad enough, and she'll start a nasty rumor about you (she did this to another girl).

So should I keep trying with her? What advice can I give her that is closest to the truth without offending her? Or should I just cut ties? She is getting so annoying with the whining!

Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 9, 2012 at 9:34 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 9, 2012 at 11:06 PM
You obviously have never had a friend like that.

Quoting jjolsen77:

you are calling her your friend but you dont seem to be friend material

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 9, 2012 at 11:07 PM
Toxic friend. Cut her out of your life. I did that with my "friend" a couple months ago. You'll be better off.
FatAndHungry
by on Oct. 9, 2012 at 11:07 PM
Lol why she gotta b a bitch tho
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 9, 2012 at 11:08 PM

LOL Haven't you ever started a story with "So this bitch..?"

Quoting jjolsen77:

i guess no one saw the first sentence of the post?? It didnt say " have a friend who" it said " i know this bitch" lol

Quoting Anonymous:

Right? I'm glad you get where I'm coming from!

Quoting Dark_Soul:

When your friends come to you for advice, you don't offer it? You don't have their best interest at heart and strive to advise them on better life choices? Then you aren't a friend at all.

Quoting jjolsen77:

me presuming??? ok, well your wrong Im not, i just said you dont sound like good friend material. Why dont you try talking to her, or better yet let her live her life and you live hers and when she needs a shoulder to cry on because of a bunch of deadbeats then be there for her? well, thats how I would treat any real friend of mine anyways


Quoting Anonymous:


Why, because I'm starting to get tired of hearing her complain all the time? Because of this one issue, you can deduce I'm not "friend material?" Please. Don't presume to know about me and my relationships, just because I am venting about one issue with one person. SMH.


Quoting jjolsen77:


you are calling her your friend but you dont seem to be friend material








bleedhairspray
by on Oct. 9, 2012 at 11:08 PM

Just tell her from now on that her relationships are her business and you don't feel comfortable giving advice.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 9, 2012 at 11:09 PM

LOL cause! She's being so annoying! Hehe...

Quoting FatAndHungry:

Lol why she gotta b a bitch tho


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 9, 2012 at 11:12 PM

Yeah...that doesn't sound very "friendly" of her, does it? Idk, if she's your friend, she is great...she's sweet. It's just when you piss her off that brings out the crazy, lol! Sadly she is hyper-sensitive, so the slightest criticism can set her off :/

Quoting Schleetle:

If you're worried being honest when she asks for advice will cause her to spread lies about you behind your back I don't even know why you consider her a friend.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 9, 2012 at 11:14 PM

sounds like ghetto life to me

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 9, 2012 at 11:14 PM

Oh, boy...she's not gonna be happy about that! I can just hear her now: "Why not? I thought you were my friend! Why would you do this to meeee?" Ugh! You're right though, I just need to suck it up and deal with it...

Quoting bleedhairspray:

Just tell her from now on that her relationships are her business and you don't feel comfortable giving advice.


Dzyre1115
by Desiree` on Oct. 9, 2012 at 11:17 PM

 Birds of a feather....do you want to be associated with her kind of people?

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