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Does this mean he is cheating 1 update

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I have a new bf. Last Sunday I had a girls day with my bffl. He told me you better not be meeting up with no dudes. (he knows I like black guys) he said if I find out you ever with another dude I would knock the black off them till they turned white. I thought wow kinda creepy at the same time never had a guy willing to fight for me. Well yesterday he told me he was going to go smoke a blunt with his cousin. Today I find on his fb a female post on his pic yesterday, "we need to take a pic together so you can set it as your profile pic" well he writes her back, "lol yeah right." (next response him) "I'm at the spot where are you?" her "I am at my sisters" him "alright Boo I am gonna call you." well today I write him on fb hey babe missing you when are you coming home? (We live next door to each other even though he is at my house day and night) the post is deleted and the same girl has a post now, "we need to talk boyyy!" wtf! I have PTSD and BPD so idk if my mind is making up stuff or this is him cheating. Oh btw he was gone most of the day today and when we went to do sexual acts tonight it smelled different.

*she wrote that while he was asleep. He deleted her post too. I asked him about her this morning he said she is like a best friend that if I want to talk to her then I can he will call her so I can talk to her. Well I am going to take him up on that offer. He says in the country Boo Boo means someone close to you not like my Boo. Well he didn't say Boo Boo for 1 and for 2 I will talk to her. She will tell me. Oh and he is not raciest. If he was he wouldn't be with me at all. I am not black.
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 10, 2012 at 6:46 AM
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by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 8:33 AM

hmm looks like he went with the first one ...but its clearly a lie.

Want to know why  i think so ? Because if she was just a 'friend' ...then he would not have deleted her comments from his wall ...and she wouldnt have gotten mad and needed to speak to him about your post on his wall....

And just because she is a woman , does not mean that she will tell you the total truth..

I say take the actions over the words ...

Quoting Two_Hearts:

If a man has a nickname for a girl is either one of two things. 

1. ) She is a long time friend ~ in this case though , you would have been told about her ...which obviously you were not. 

2) He is sleeping with her.~ which is clearly the case.

I say dump his ass ....

by Anonymous 52 on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:00 PM

  I would say a big yes.

by Anonymous 53 on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:04 PM

bffl? Are you still in highschool?

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