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Does this mean he is cheating 1 update

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I have a new bf. Last Sunday I had a girls day with my bffl. He told me you better not be meeting up with no dudes. (he knows I like black guys) he said if I find out you ever with another dude I would knock the black off them till they turned white. I thought wow kinda creepy at the same time never had a guy willing to fight for me. Well yesterday he told me he was going to go smoke a blunt with his cousin. Today I find on his fb a female post on his pic yesterday, "we need to take a pic together so you can set it as your profile pic" well he writes her back, "lol yeah right." (next response him) "I'm at the spot where are you?" her "I am at my sisters" him "alright Boo I am gonna call you." well today I write him on fb hey babe missing you when are you coming home? (We live next door to each other even though he is at my house day and night) the post is deleted and the same girl has a post now, "we need to talk boyyy!" wtf! I have PTSD and BPD so idk if my mind is making up stuff or this is him cheating. Oh btw he was gone most of the day today and when we went to do sexual acts tonight it smelled different.

*she wrote that while he was asleep. He deleted her post too. I asked him about her this morning he said she is like a best friend that if I want to talk to her then I can he will call her so I can talk to her. Well I am going to take him up on that offer. He says in the country Boo Boo means someone close to you not like my Boo. Well he didn't say Boo Boo for 1 and for 2 I will talk to her. She will tell me. Oh and he is not raciest. If he was he wouldn't be with me at all. I am not black.
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 10, 2012 at 6:46 AM
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by Platinum Member on Oct. 10, 2012 at 8:39 AM
Yep... Sounds like he with you on the side bc you are a convent one to get with.

Quoting Mrs-Robinson:


and it sounds like you are the "other" woman.

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by on Oct. 10, 2012 at 8:39 AM
Let's see, he's racist, controlling, a drug user, and very likely a cheater, too. Sounds like a real prize!
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by Platinum Member on Oct. 10, 2012 at 8:40 AM

 I can't believe you are even questioning this and you were willing to do sexual things with him after reading that! "Bye bye loser" would have been my response to him!

by on Oct. 10, 2012 at 8:41 AM

How long have you two been dating?  I'd drop his ass if I were you.

by Anonymous 7 on Oct. 10, 2012 at 8:47 AM

Quoting Anonymous:

No. I'm sure he's been at church & she's his spiritual advisor.

by on Oct. 10, 2012 at 8:49 AM
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If a man has a nickname for a girl ..it is either one of two things. 

1. ) She is a long time friend ~ in this case though , you would have been told about her ...which obviously you were not. 

2) He is sleeping with her.~ which is clearly the case.

I say dump his ass ....

by Anonymous 8 on Oct. 10, 2012 at 8:50 AM
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Umm either way ya'll are some classy mother fuckers.

by on Oct. 10, 2012 at 8:59 AM

You don't need that kind of BS and drama in your life. And tell him that.

by Anonymous 9 on Oct. 10, 2012 at 9:00 AM


by Crystal on Oct. 10, 2012 at 9:01 AM
sorry :(
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