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If you knew then what you know now?

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Would you have married/ had babies with who you did?

And why.

My husband now I wouldn't change but the fact I didn't save myself for marriage I wish I could change soo badly.
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 10, 2012 at 4:55 PM
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by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 2:36 AM

I wouldn't change a thing.  The chance that I wouldn't have my babies, just as they are, well, I won't even consider changing anything. 

I love my DF and I wouldn't change what we have been through as a couple and individuals either.  My life now has been worth every heartache.

by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 2:37 AM

Me too! LOL! ;)

Quoting Anonymous:

That's awesome I'm glad you have someone like that

Quoting LadyDIN:

My standards were significantly lower. He graduated HS, no problems with police, or drugs. He'd left college when I met him. He was a clean straight shooter that wasn't abusive. He... he actually made me feel good about myself! Honestly it's a much healthier relationship than I ever actually saw myself in. He's been a super good influence. It's funny that we wouldn't have met if my ex hadn't been such a lying a**hole. He introduced us actually.

Mine was a DND (a friend's dad was the dungeon master I kid you not) nerd in HS. lol. I used to joke that I'd have quietly baked him mountains of cookies and been friend-zoned.

Quoting Anonymous:

I feel the same about my dh. When I was younger I didn't think someone like my dh would even look twice at me he was the captain of the football team in hs. And I would think he was way out of my league lol.

Quoting LadyDIN:

Ditto! If I'd known that a man like DH would even look at me, let alone marry me, I would have saved myself for him. My only comfort is to know that even if he wasn't my first, he will be my last.

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by Gold Member on Oct. 11, 2012 at 2:39 AM
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Absolutely. I married my husband because I got pregnant and it was a way out of the house. I am still with him because he means the world to me and I wouldn't want to spend a day without him. He is an amazing father and husband and I have been able to see become an amazing man.
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by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 2:46 AM

how were things in the beginning?

Quoting Anonymous:

I wouldn't have got married. He's a lying, cheating ass. I wasted 6 years of my life with that fool.

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by Ruby Member on Oct. 11, 2012 at 2:47 AM
Yeah I would have done the same
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by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 2:52 AM
I was just going to say this! Lol

Quoting anon1986East:

Yes, absolutely because he's a great husband and father, besides that we also make beautiful babies together.

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by Anonymous 24 on Oct. 11, 2012 at 2:54 AM
Nope c
by Anonymous 25 on Oct. 11, 2012 at 2:56 AM

I just wish I would've met DH sooner, maybe when we were in highschool. Could've saved me the trouble of getting hurt by my first love.

by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 2:56 AM
Absolutely. But I would have waited longer to do those things. He still has some growing up to do. But he's a good dad and a great man..I know he'll grow into himself.
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by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 3:31 AM

Yes. Hes an amazing man.

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