If you were the wife, would you want to know? I was involved with a married man for 2 years and yes, I know it was wrong. I fell for the entire story of "I love you" and am divorcing my wife. I do believe he isn't in love with her anymore because I'm somewhat close to the family and know they've had problems for years, but I guess he can't decide if he wants a divorce. Part time with the kids and paying tons of child support weighs on his mind. Anyway, his wife found out but there is a lot she doesn't know. She asked me questions and I lied to protect him. But the guilt is weighing on me and I feel like it would be best to get it all off my chest, and for her to know the truth about how deep our affair was. She has no idea that we took trips together and have been having sex for almost the entire time. He convinced her it was all emotional, and that's it. Should I tell her? Would you want to know?