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Thinking about aborting due to PA? *UPDATE*

Anonymous
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I found out I'm pregnant, and I want to keep my baby. But that would mean I would have to go on PA to support the baby.  I was told I dont deserve to be a mother if I need PA, so im thinking about aborting. :(


*UPDATE*

Thanks to all that are offering kind words and support.  The baby's dad is not in my life, and its my mom that told me I dont deserve to be a mom if Im on any type of PA. Thats why im torn with this decision, because if I keep this baby I will have no support from my family.

Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:25 AM
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whitneyeliza08
by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:26 AM
What about adoption?
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bgbootyho
by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:26 AM
Good luck with that.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:26 AM
Adoption!
Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:28 AM
1 mom liked this

cassi_d_m
by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:28 AM
Lol so you're letting the people on this site determine of your babe lives or not?

This sounds like a drama post IMO
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:28 AM
So stupid.. don't blame it on money if you want the baby keep it.
KyrinM
by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:29 AM

No, that is not a good reason to abort.  So you are going to need a little help, but terminating a child you want just because you may need PA, is a damn poor reason.  Not to mention the emotional damage to you, get the help you need, while you may need help now, it doesn't mean you will need it forever, don't let it bother you.  Hugs!


MommieBre21
by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:29 AM

Have you talked to the father? At least consider adoption.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:29 AM
It could have been someone close to her. There is life outside of Cafemom ;-)

Quoting cassi_d_m:

Lol so you're letting the people on this site determine of your babe lives or not?



This sounds like a drama post IMO

AF2011
by Ruby Member on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:29 AM
We all know you aren't serious. You just want to stir up some drama
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