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I'm less than 2 days post op. I almost had to have an emergency hysterectomy done but she left the part alone.

However, something is tearing away from my wall and once it does, it could cause hemorrhage and death. That means, my post op appt, we'll be discussing that.

I have one son who is 4. I desperately want another baby but if I'm only given a year, I can't meet someone up to standard and have a kid :(

This just added to my sorrow.....2 people announced they were pregnant last night and the ones who are already pregnant, seemed to be posting extra about being pregnant.

:(
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by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 9:07 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:10 PM
Hemmorage and death?

Quoting BeAmour:

Did I say I was dying?



Quoting Anonymous:

Wait, so you're dying now?
BeAmour
by Tonya on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:11 PM
I had a laparoscopy and D&C done....for the 4th time.

This was the most significant find.


Quoting JDmommyJD:

 :( hugs and luck.


What surgery did you have?

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BeAmour
by Tonya on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:16 PM
IF whatever this is decides it wants to rip off my wall. I just saw a photo and she said it's super vascular and could hemorrhage without immediate notice.....we're going to talk about it more in depth next week.

Quoting Anonymous:

Hemmorage and death?



Quoting BeAmour:

Did I say I was dying?





Quoting Anonymous:

Wait, so you're dying now?
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by Queen Mom on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:16 PM
Sorry :(
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bcoll
by Brandi on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:18 PM

I'm sorry :(

DylansMommyXo
by Daggy on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:20 PM
I'm sorry :( hugs.
sampson200
by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:22 PM

If any woman wants a baby so very very much, she can adopt.

I did.

I am very sorry that you are feeling so horribly down, OP. But pregnancy isn't the only way to have a child.

BeAmour
by Tonya on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:27 PM
I had a routine laparoscopy and D&C done on Tuesday. At first, she went in and burned off endometrial lesions and figure out why my uterus was so enlarged...which it wasn't it was actually tiny. Then, she blew my tubes out to see if they are clear and I think that's what is tearing. She said that once she saw that, she didn't even bother with it bc it was too sensitive.

So basically, she needs to do a hysterectomy: I'm not ready. I still want another child but I'm going through a divorce and by the time I get the chance to meet someone and have another, it may be too late.

Then, after I got that news, 2 people (unknowing my news), announced they were pregnant.


Quoting TrouserMouse:

I don't really understand what you are saying happened.  I am confused.

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BeAmour
by Tonya on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:30 PM
I know, not sure if I can bond with someone elses child though.

Quoting sampson200:

If any woman wants a baby so very very much, she can adopt.

I did.

I am very sorry that you are feeling so horribly down, OP. But pregnancy isn't the only way to have a child.

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sampson200
by on Oct. 11, 2012 at 12:33 PM

Without saying someone smart-mouthed to you, well, it's better you don't adopt then, I guess.

Can't have you not loving a child that didn't come from your cooter......

Quoting BeAmour:

I know, not sure if I can bond with someone elses child though.

Quoting sampson200:

If any woman wants a baby so very very much, she can adopt.

I did.

I am very sorry that you are feeling so horribly down, OP. But pregnancy isn't the only way to have a child.


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