I have a sister. She is very selfish. When anyone talks to her, she makes the conversation all about her. She isn't a good person either. She abandoned her children. She has cheated on her husband several times. And cut all ties with her mother (my stepmom) because she got sick and she said, "I don't have time to help her, I have my own problems"
When I left my abusive husband a few years ago, she kept in contact with him and told him I'll be back because I'll realize the grass is not greener. This is after, while we were dating, 10 years prior, she tried hooking him up with her girlfriend. When my daughter was a baby and she was seriously sick, my sister went around telling everyone that it was my fault. (she had an upper resperatory that lead to pnemunia due to sleep apena. She was on a a machine for a year)
Our other sister stopped talking to her, everyone in the family did. She is toxic.
I could go on and on.
Any how, recently she found out she has cancer. Now everyone is kissing her ass. They are forgetting the person she is. Still is, having cancer doesn't change what you have done in your life. It doesn't bring your children back. It doesn't take back the mean things you have done and said. With no remorse by the way. She is famous for saying she puts herself first, that is just how it is.
So I don't talk to her. I don't wish harm on her, but I want no part of her treatment, ect. And the whole family is now treating me like I am the awful person.