I am trying..but he just pushes

[Anonymous]

I am on day one of the "Love Dare". I am biting my tongue. He keeps pushing my buttons but I have been good and not responded to his mean comments. So far I am hanging in there!

[Michellina11234]

huh?

[mattiehatter]

Good luck.

[luvhubandbabys]

:( does he know ur doing the love dare sorry not familar with it. I can't see how u putting up with mean comments will help. Idk tho maybe I will look up this love dare stuff. Lol. I hope it works tho.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

No he doesn't know.

Quoting luvhubandbabys:

:( does he know ur doing the love dare sorry not familar with it. I can't see how u putting up with mean comments will help. Idk tho maybe I will look up this love dare stuff. Lol. I hope it works tho.

[RazzleMySpazz]

Isn't that something you're supposed to do with your spouse?

I'm not sure what you'll accomplish accept becoming bitter, without his support and equal work emotionally.

[Anonymous]

Im going to borrow that book from my mom today. Good luck with yours!!

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

You can do it with your spouse, we are having trust issues on both my part and his. My therapist suggested it to me. He normally isn't negative but he does like to push buttons. I am doing this to see if I want to still be his wife.

Quoting RazzleMySpazz:

Isn't that something you're supposed to do with your spouse?



I'm not sure what you'll accomplish accept becoming bitter, without his support and equal work emotionally.

[ColorMeCrazy]

Good luck to you!!

[iheartmycinco]

I want to start it. Kind of just for fun. I've heard a lot of people say that is what they did. But I do agree with PP, I think you are suppose to do it together.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Oh good, I don't feel so alone now.. What's your reason for doing it? We are having trust problems and things like that

Quoting Anonymous:

Im going to borrow that book from my mom today. Good luck with yours!!