I have been with my husband for 16 years and we been married for 12 years. we have 7 grate kids together I am a stay at home mom. he is a school teacher. let me tell you want been going on for the last past 5 years. he plays WOW it is a online game. he get up gos to work comes home and get right on his game he there in tell the time gos to bed. some time he is up it tell 4am playing he dones not help me with the kids get homework done. the sad thing is he does not even go to the kids games. I had lost two babys in the last 5 years he has not talk to me about it. he told me I did this to my self and I have to grow up and dill with it. this was after I had lost the badys. now it come donw where we do not talk all he want is SEX. I am not in to sex anymore. I know I love him but I feel like I am not in love with him. today is my birthday and he for get about my birthday agein this yera. I just do not know if I can keep feeling like he dones not care about me or the kids anymore. now that he is maroy of are town now I just do not get to see him I go to bed by my self for a long time. now I just do not know want to do or say to him. I told him last night I needed to talk to him and he said ok give me 5mins with the 5 mins still have not got to take to him. my kids ask me way do you put up with him doing this to you mom all I can say is that I love him. but I have been thinking a lot today I am not in love with him. :( I just do not know want to do.