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I will be her surrogate if she can't get pregnant.

Anonymous
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A good friend of mine has been ttc for over two years. She had one blighted ovum almost a year ago. She is seeing a fert specialist to see if her eggs are viable. If they are she will attempt ivf. If it fails we may proceed with surrogacy. I hope she can have her own baby, but honestly I'm very excited that I may get to be pregnant again and give her the baby she deserves. She's a wonderful person and is fabulous w kids. We should know something within six mths time. So this time next year I could be pregnant with my friends baby. (if her eggs are not viable idk if we will use mine or a donor egg yet)
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 12, 2012 at 2:03 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 12, 2012 at 2:04 AM
Great way to ruin a friendship. Good luck.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 12, 2012 at 2:06 AM
Aww why do you say that?


Quoting Anonymous:

Great way to ruin a friendship. Good luck.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 12, 2012 at 2:06 AM
Bump
pse07
by Bronze Member on Oct. 12, 2012 at 2:08 AM
Good luck to your friend.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 12, 2012 at 2:09 AM
Alot of things can go wrong with surrogacy. You don't want to give the baby up especially if you use your own egg, they change their mind, god forbid something terrible happens and they blame you. All the what ifs. Like I said good luck.

Quoting Anonymous:

Aww why do you say that?




Quoting Anonymous:

Great way to ruin a friendship. Good luck.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 12, 2012 at 2:09 AM
Use a donor egg, if it comes to that. You are way to close to her to give her a biological child of yours. Just my opinion, of course. But even if she is the best woman on earth it will be way to hard to stand by and watch as she raises your child.
MyStarLight
by Silver Member on Oct. 12, 2012 at 2:11 AM
Maybe she.just can't carry
but try using her eggs first
Good luck
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 12, 2012 at 2:16 AM
They are testing her eggs for viability to see if that's possible.


Quoting MyStarLight:

Maybe she.just can't carry

but try using her eggs first

Good luck

unspecified42
by on Oct. 12, 2012 at 2:18 AM
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I've made several close friends through surrogacy. Friends who started as strangers and are now more like family. I'm also currently carrying my sister's child.

How many times have you been a surrogate?



Quoting Anonymous:

Great way to ruin a friendship. Good luck.

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mattiehatter
by Mary on Oct. 12, 2012 at 2:18 AM
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Do not use your own egg. If you end up her surrogate I hope that all goes well and it brings your friendship even closer together.

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