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If you had to choose.

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Question: Which method would you choose

Options:

Abortion Pill

D&C (in-clinic procedure)


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I'm going to get an abortion and I want to know which ladies may have gone through either type. One being the abortion pill, the other being the in-clinic procedure. I'm scared shitless of both but its absolutely necessary because I was raped and can't live with myself if I keep it :'( Thank you ladies for being supportive and not bashing me, I'm already going through a really tough time.

I'm leaning towards the pill but I'm not sure if the DSHS medical will cover it and I don't really have the money right now. Please help me out ladies, it's greatly appreciated.

Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 12, 2012 at 4:34 AM
Replies (41-50):
mommy2angels427
by Gold Member on Oct. 12, 2012 at 8:55 AM

 hugs and good luck momma!  I am soo sorry.....

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 12, 2012 at 8:56 AM

 maybe if somebody RAPES you you'll understand!

Quoting moneysaver6:

Neither will I.

Quoting Anonymous:

I will never understand how any mother would choose to kill her own baby, smh

Quoting moneysaver6:

I would not voluntarily choose to kill any of my children; legal or not.


 

momswag
by on Oct. 12, 2012 at 8:57 AM
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It is not a child, it is not a life. It is a mass of cells that has the potential to be life, if given the right environment to grow. 

Also, the pregnancy is unwanted, therefore the OP may not consider the mass of cells who has the potential to be life her child. 

Just because you VIEW it as killing, doesn't mean it is killing. It's the removal of a clump of cells that are not viable outside of the womb, 

Quoting moneysaver6:

I would not voluntarily choose to kill any of my children; legal or not.


mommy2angels427
by Gold Member on Oct. 12, 2012 at 9:02 AM

 why not own your responses and your position?

Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting Anonymous:

 I don't believe in murder so none of the above.

These posts are so childish.

You and everyone else saying these ridiculous and hurtful things need to leave her alone.

 

Why? Because she tells it like it is?

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 12, 2012 at 9:05 AM

 not to mention, the BIBLE, where they thumping thugs site their position defines life as having taken breathe,..... which this fetus, cell mass failed to do.....

in the end, i'd go with the pill if I could... good luck, best wishes and hugs!

Quoting momswag:

It is not a child, it is not a life. It is a mass of cells that has the potential to be life, if given the right environment to grow. 

Also, the pregnancy is unwanted, therefore the OP may not consider the mass of cells who has the potential to be life her child. 

Just because you VIEW it as killing, doesn't mean it is killing. It's the removal of a clump of cells that are not viable outside of the womb, 

Quoting moneysaver6:

I would not voluntarily choose to kill any of my children; legal or not.


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 12, 2012 at 9:15 AM
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Its still killing a life and never acceptable

Quoting MusicMuse1991:



Quoting Anonymous:

I would never murder and innocent baby

good thing abortion isn't murder then

momswag
by on Oct. 12, 2012 at 11:22 AM

May I ask how abortion is killing a life? 

One would need a LIFE before said life was taken from them, no? 

Quoting Anonymous:

Its still killing a life and never acceptable

Quoting MusicMuse1991:



Quoting Anonymous:

I would never murder and innocent baby

good thing abortion isn't murder then


moneysaver6
by Platinum Member on Oct. 12, 2012 at 12:47 PM
Not one of us here has claimed to be perfect. We just don't understand how someone could even consider killing their child; legal or not.

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm sorry that happen to you! Please ignore those nasty ,ugly ,woman who think it is okay to lay a guilt trip on you because they think they are so damn perfect! If it where me, I would take the pill.
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PinkWink
by on Oct. 12, 2012 at 12:51 PM
They sometimes use a pill form of methotrexate or infection.

It's still an abortion.


Quoting weirdkids:

those are usually handled by a regular ob, not an abortion clinic and its a completely different procedure. they do not use a pill for it and "in clinic " procedure isnt the same either. i also wouldnt be seeking out an abortion. the termination would happen in a hospital setting, not in an office att some clinic.


Quoting PinkWink:

Ectopic pregnancy?



Quoting weirdkids:

i can not answer this because there is no situation in which i would have to seek out an abortion. 


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moneysaver6
by Platinum Member on Oct. 12, 2012 at 12:59 PM
No, it has to do with an innocent life who needs someone else to speak for him or her because mommy, the person who should care the most, wants to kill him or her.

Quoting MusicMuse1991:

and i will never understand why people have to be a bitch about a choice that has nothing to do with them


Quoting moneysaver6:

Neither will I.

Quoting Anonymous:

I will never understand how any mother would choose to kill her own baby, smh

Quoting moneysaver6:

I would not voluntarily choose to kill any of my children; legal or not.



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