What I'm thinking of doing now is wrapping up this cute monkey/pacifier and just telling him I found something for him at the store and letting him unwrap it.
Any other cute ideas you guys have?
My marriage or lack there of has nothing to do with this post.
Quoting ria7:You did ask...I was quoting you. It makes no difference to me but you did ask so I answered why I would wait.
Quoting Roxygurl:
Well thank you for your input although it truly is none of your business. We will be getting married before we start trying for a baby. Now since my impending marriage has nothing to do with this post lets just let that be and focus on what I did ask, shall we?
Quoting ria7:It just makes sense and sets a good example for the kids. Of course you can do whateve you want but I try to live by example for y kids.
Quoting Roxygurl:
Why do we have to wait until we get married?
Quoting Melissa_4:Wait til you get married and get pregnant, and then buy the youngest step kid a "Big brother/sister" t-shirt to wear.
Quoting Roxygurl:
I could do that with my son but not my step kids.
I would like to include all 4 kids though I'm not sure how to pull that off.
Quoting masonsmommy107:
Buy all the kids big brother/sister shirts even the youngest have them greet him after work or something wearing them and see if he gets the hint
Also, when I found out I was pregnant with my first daughter, my hubby was out of town and I could not wait to tell him....I had his secretary fax him a memo updating his calendar, so he got an update on his computer when he was in Belgium that basically said....week of January 17-24, You will need to be home in NC to welcome your new bundle of joy with your wife...Congratulations, you are going to be a Daddy!, and it had a scanned ultrasound pic...he called me really early in the morning bc of the time change, etc...he was crying and so excited....I would have loved to have seen his face, but I could not wait to tell hime when he got home, he was gone for about 5 weeks at a time then!
If that faiks, get some actually jars of baby food, sit one at his place of the table and one at yours with baby spoons and bibs next to them.
Maybe that'll give him a hint (:
Quoting ErikaRobin:Grain of rice.
Ring box.
Glue.
Glue the grain of rice into the ring box, give it to your man and say, This is the size of the fetus in my belleh right now.
Omg. Lol. I dare some girl to mess with my DD's in high school. I'm evil.
Quoting Mrs.Kubalabuku:I know! I kind of want to do that now, but I'm afaid some teen girl would be on the streets b/c of my joke! LOL
Quoting ilovemykids323:LMAO... couldyou imagine... i'm pregnant right nowthis could be a fun idea to do to random people ;)
Quoting Mrs.Kubalabuku:
I taped my pregnancy test to the glass door, right at his eye level.
First, DH walked right past it and didn't notice.
Then, when I got him to look at the door, he yanked it off the door and said "Whose is THIS?!" Like some crazy girl was taping her tests to doors or something...
So no. I failed.
The next one we found out together b/c i was at the doctor for a cat scan and they did a blood test to be sure I was OK to have this dye stuff. Nope, couldn't get scanned. LOL
The only way it would work would be for the kids to already be with us and he leaves them to go do something. I could probably pull it off that way.
Quoting masonsmommy107:
Will bm not let you borrow them to surprise daddy? That would be a sweet way to tell him and the kids would feel included!
Quoting Roxygurl:
I could do that with my son but not my step kids.
I would like to include all 4 kids though I'm not sure how to pull that off.
Quoting masonsmommy107:
Buy all the kids big brother/sister shirts even the youngest have them greet him after work or something wearing them and see if he gets the hint
Quoting bakerytreatz16:
Serve "baby" food until e gets the hint: baby corn, baby peas, baby back ribs, baby bananas, baby potatoes etc.
If that faiks, get some actually jars of baby food, sit one at his place of the table and one at yours with baby spoons and bibs next to them.
Maybe that'll give him a hint (:
Quoting Roxygurl:
I like that idea!!!'
Quoting bakerytreatz16:
Serve "baby" food until e gets the hint: baby corn, baby peas, baby back ribs, baby bananas, baby potatoes etc.
If that faiks, get some actually jars of baby food, sit one at his place of the table and one at yours with baby spoons and bibs next to them.
Maybe that'll give him a hint (:
Quoting beerabitch69:
Yeah, made me lol =0)
With light and love
At what age should I tell my son dh is not his bio dad?
- Roxygurl
on Oct. 12, 2012 at 4:24 PM