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He made fun of my bush

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SO and I were chatting the other night, and we were talking about sex.

He out of nowhere said "OH yeah, you're kind of hairy down there..."

After the initial shock wore off, I explained that my vagina in particular is prone to infections more than others, or at least it seems that way. I keep a bush down there (tamed and groomed, of course) because IMO, it helps prevent those infections. The times I shave it all completely, I end up with a yeast infection or BV.

Anyone else have that?

Before you ask, no I do not expect him to go down with my hair, because he didn't when I had no hair.


My creator made me strong enough to withstand any fear, terror, or trauma.
My creator gave me the will to fight for any and everything I love.
Yet, my creator made me soft enough to have love and compassion. 
I'm still standing, on my own two feet.
I was born into this world to fight, and it's painful, but I am accepting of the challenge.
 

by on Oct. 12, 2012 at 7:56 PM
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hp2011
by Ruby Member on Oct. 12, 2012 at 8:27 PM


Quoting RLT2:

Why are you still with this man??? I'd be off the bed and out the door as soon as I realized Oral wasn't on the menu

I convince myself it's because I'm not shallow and oral isn't important... but then I realize that it is.LOL

My creator made me strong enough to withstand any fear, terror, or trauma.
My creator gave me the will to fight for any and everything I love.
Yet, my creator made me soft enough to have love and compassion. 
I'm still standing, on my own two feet.
I was born into this world to fight, and it's painful, but I am accepting of the challenge.
 

cherrywaves21
by on Oct. 12, 2012 at 8:27 PM
Basic health states why the lack of hair causes issues.


Quoting reesesami:

I don't see why shaving would give you a yeast infection. That seems like something I would talk with a doctor about. In my opinion, I feel MUCH cleaner and healthier down there without hair but I get waxed because I don't like shaving.

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RLT2
by on Oct. 12, 2012 at 8:28 PM


Quoting hp2011:


Quoting RLT2:

Why are you still with this man??? I'd be off the bed and out the door as soon as I realized Oral wasn't on the menu

I convince myself it's because I'm not shallow and oral isn't important... but then I realize that it is.LOL

It's only shallow if you judge him by how he LOOKS when he's going down! Leave him-he sucks, I mean he doesn't suck and that's why he sucks

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 12, 2012 at 8:28 PM
So what you are saying is... When he told u u were hairy.. U retorted by bringing up vag infections. Hmm
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 12, 2012 at 8:29 PM
What?


Quoting cherrywaves21:

Basic health states why the lack of hair causes issues.




Quoting reesesami:

I don't see why shaving would give you a yeast infection. That seems like something I would talk with a doctor about. In my opinion, I feel MUCH cleaner and healthier down there without hair but I get waxed because I don't like shaving.


Des10ed2b
by Gold Member on Oct. 12, 2012 at 8:29 PM

to each their own! i shave mine every 3 or 4 days because i feel like i get MORE infections when i have hair and having the hair itches me. i just dont care for it. My husband trims his up for me here and there. if it starts getting really long i call it the "rain forest". i hate it when its long enough that it goes up my nose when i try to give him head. 

hp2011
by Ruby Member on Oct. 12, 2012 at 8:30 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

So what you are saying is... When he told u u were hairy.. U retorted by bringing up vag infections. Hmm

Yeah, he watched me push a baby out.... modesty is pretty much out the window at this point.

He's also bought my tampons and yeast infection stuff, etc. We have a comfortable relationship, which is why he felt comfortable enough to even bring it up in the first place.

My creator made me strong enough to withstand any fear, terror, or trauma.
My creator gave me the will to fight for any and everything I love.
Yet, my creator made me soft enough to have love and compassion. 
I'm still standing, on my own two feet.
I was born into this world to fight, and it's painful, but I am accepting of the challenge.
 

luvem630
by on Oct. 12, 2012 at 8:30 PM
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The hair on your body is there for a reason. It traps bacteria and keeps it from entering your orifices.


Quoting reesesami:

I don't see why shaving would give you a yeast infection. That seems like something I would talk with a doctor about. In my opinion, I feel MUCH cleaner and healthier down there without hair but I get waxed because I don't like shaving.

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PinkButterfly66
by Emerald Member on Oct. 12, 2012 at 8:31 PM

Nope, I don't shave, except for bathing suit line.   I have no desire to look like a prepubescent child.

starry_dreamer
by on Oct. 12, 2012 at 8:34 PM
Ok I could be crazy but doesn't that hair play the same way to an extent as eye lashes and eyebrows do to our eyes or nose hair to our nose? :/ I keep it clean down there so I'm just as guilty but there has to be a reason we get hair. I wonder of it stops growing at a certain point. Could you imagine the jungle if someone never trimmed or shaved or waxed it EVER! O.O


Quoting reesesami:

I don't see why shaving would give you a yeast infection. That seems like something I would talk with a doctor about. In my opinion, I feel MUCH cleaner and healthier down there without hair but I get waxed because I don't like shaving.

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