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Would this frustrate you?

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Everyday dh takes $20 to work. We agreed that we can afford for him to spend $10 a day (ciggs, snacks and drinks) but he continuously takes $20 and spends it all.

He also gets a soda everyday on his way home. He never brings home anything for me to drink, just a soda for himself.

I spend $10-15 a week in groceries because I shop at dollar tree. I only get chicken and premade meatballs because we can't afford much. We don't qualify for pa so I dont get to buy meats. He spends more in 1 day than I do in 1 week!

Would this bother you?

Eta: I make him a lunch everyday. It's usually leftovers but it's enough to fill him up!!
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 12, 2012 at 10:31 PM
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noble427
by Bronze Member on Oct. 12, 2012 at 10:45 PM
Quoting Anonymous:




So him spending 20 bucks a day on cigs and bullshit is more important than your kid eating?

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Summerlion1123
by Platinum Member on Oct. 12, 2012 at 10:45 PM

It wouldn't just bother me it would piss me off and I wouldn't deal with it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 12, 2012 at 10:46 PM
I know. If I had it my way he wouldn't take any but I don't work so I told him he can take $10 a day. We just moved and we are having to pay the deposit that's why I'm going to dollar tree for food


Quoting sandra_t00:

You CANNOT afford for him to take 10 a day of you only spend 10-15 a week at the dollar store. do you realize how ridiculously ridiculous that sounds?!?!?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 12, 2012 at 10:46 PM

Do you have a debit card?

Endo.girl
by Bronze Member on Oct. 12, 2012 at 10:47 PM
Give him an allowance after you do the food shoppping. If the moneys not there then he can't spend it.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 12, 2012 at 10:47 PM
No my son never goes hungry I make sure of that


Quoting noble427:

Quoting Anonymous:






So him spending 20 bucks a day on cigs and bullshit is more important than your kid eating?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 12, 2012 at 10:47 PM
No it's cash


Quoting Anonymous:

Do you have a debit card?


BEXi
by BEXi on Oct. 12, 2012 at 10:48 PM

Absolutely.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 12, 2012 at 10:48 PM
How am I trolling?!


Quoting Anonymous:

Just calling it like I see it...


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm being serious no troll here





Quoting Anonymous:

TROLL!!!!!





Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 12, 2012 at 10:48 PM
We would never live like that
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