What do you do if your dh is to big? I've never been with anyone else and yes I enjoy sex, I love him very much. But I hurt the next day or the same day every time. His short quicky is not short and if he has a couple of drink he goes on forever. He not huge, he only about 9 inches but he is thick. What do you do? I can put up with my mouth and jaw being sore but I feel like he's splitting me. What can I do?