what if your dh is to big

[Anonymous]

What do you do if your dh is to big? I've never been with anyone else and yes I enjoy sex, I love him very much. But I hurt the next day or the same day every time. His short quicky is not short and if he has a couple of drink he goes on forever. He not huge, he only about 9 inches but he is thick. What do you do? I can put up with my mouth and jaw being sore but I feel like he's splitting me. What can I do?

[Endo.girl]

Try out different positions. It may be that theres some funky position that works for thick men... 9 inches is big compared to most men. Be thankful you don't have a hubby like my ex he was 10+ inches and the thickness of a red bull can. We never had sex for that reason lol. My bf now is perfect.

[Anonymous]

Oh yeah, I'm going to suck the hell out of my BF tomorrow night if at all possible! His dick hurts my throat going down it but I love it. I have thrown up on him before as well and it was so hot. 

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Really? How do you do it? My dh has explained it and we watched pornos so I could get an idea but I gag. My dh loved the fact that I was a virgin when we got married but I know he gets frustrated. I can only get better right!

Quoting Anonymous:

Oh yeah, I'm going to suck the hell out of my BF tomorrow night if at all possible! His dick hurts my throat going down it but I love it. I have thrown up on him before as well and it was so hot. 

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

How many different positions are there and how do I find out about them?

Quoting Endo.girl:

Try out different positions. It may be that theres some funky position that works for thick men... 9 inches is big compared to most men. Be thankful you don't have a hubby like my ex he was 10+ inches and the thickness of a red bull can. We never had sex for that reason lol. My bf now is perfect.

[Anonymous]

my dh the same way we been together 6yrs married 3 and he still leaves me sore. but i learn that lubrications help we have a whole closet full of slippery kinky shit. so now i just be the typical sore the next day. i use to be so sore it wud hurt to touch

[Anonymous]

Sexinfo101.com shows all of the different positions as well as pictures. Start there and try using lube. Good Luck.

[MyLittlePwny]

Lots of lube. We cannot have sex without it. Astro Glide is what we use. Foreplay helps so you're excited and in the mood. Sometimes I will dry up and he has to use more. Certain positions hurt unless I'm super turned on.

[Endo.girl]

Google or karma sutra are great for sex positions. And lube can help :) also using a vibrator before hand during foreplay. And even getting an orgasm before you start having sex can help

[Endo.girl]

Oh hell yeah when mine gets back into town im gonna do the same thing. I love giving head

Quoting Anonymous:

Oh yeah, I'm going to suck the hell out of my BF tomorrow night if at all possible! His dick hurts my throat going down it but I love it. I have thrown up on him before as well and it was so hot. 

[Anonymous]

Try to relax when you take it all in. Stop breathing for a moment but don't attempt to hold in a breath because it will cause you to tense up and gag sooner. Definitely helps to come down on it with your neck and mouth elongated to let it go in straighter. 

And it's okay to gag. Like I said, I threw up on my BF before, and not just once, we kept going and I just kept spewing but he loved it. My friend said the same thing, that she threw up on her BF and he said it was the most amazing thing ever. My BF finally admitted that he liked that I choked on him and threw up. It must be an ego boost you know. 

So I say just give it a try. Puke all over him, he'll love it and it might help you relax to not worry about what you might do while pleasing him. 

I'm so f-ing wanting to puke all over my BF's dick tomorrow night when I see him... Oh it's on, trust me... 

Quoting Anonymous:

Really? How do you do it? My dh has explained it and we watched pornos so I could get an idea but I gag. My dh loved the fact that I was a virgin when we got married but I know he gets frustrated. I can only get better right!

Quoting Anonymous:

Oh yeah, I'm going to suck the hell out of my BF tomorrow night if at all possible! His dick hurts my throat going down it but I love it. I have thrown up on him before as well and it was so hot.