is it stupid "announce" to people a miscarriage when they didnt even know you were pregnant? *update blue*
I want to do something to remember this pregnancy by, All I have is a pregnancy test. I was 4wks 6days and starting bleeding heavy today. I feel stupid to want to tell people I have lost this baby. I want to announce the pregnancy that no one knew about, I have known for a week but I didn't say anything to anyone other then my mum, sister, fiance and 2 close friends but now I sit here thinking I want to make sure this baby is known about. I do not want to act like this never happened.
I want to upload a picture of my positive test to facebook with message to let everyone know that we had and have lost our second child but I honestly feel like a attention seeker or like I will be seen as one :(
Do you think its a bad idea?
I decided not to say anything on FB, We decided to "name" this one Skyler even though DF thought it was a crazy idea lol should have seen his face when I said we should name! priceless! haha
I am very aware that it was just "cells", a chemical pregnancy or blighted whatever, to me we were TTC and I thought I had my positive test so I was happy, I was imagining life with a toddler and newborn, A big belly on my birthday and giving birth via the VBAC i want so bad.
I woke up to blood and that was all crushed, the dream I guess.
So it still sucks even though people don't see this a "real" pregnancy. My son was once that little, once he was a bunch of cells and come out as a baby, a human being, Looking at him and knowing that this pregnancy could have been that makes a difference to the situation and the term "real pregnancy".
Thank you to all you ladies regardless of how you see any of this :)