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Both or none, I think this is messed up.

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SO's niece is having a bday party today at chuck e cheese.

Only SO's son (my youngest) is invited, SO is dropping him off at his sister's house, and 4yo (from my ex) was not even mentioned.

Ass backwards.

Fucked up.

I'm pissed.

ETA:

My son with my ex is 4. Our son is 9mos. We live together. SO is like a father to my oldest. His family knows this. SO and I have been together for 3 years, with a year and a half roughly together pre-baby.

My creator made me strong enough to withstand any fear, terror, or trauma.
My creator gave me the will to fight for any and everything I love.
Yet, my creator made me soft enough to have love and compassion. 
I'm still standing, on my own two feet.
I was born into this world to fight, and it's painful, but I am accepting of the challenge.
 

by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 9:58 AM
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beerebelly
by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:01 AM

 I feel bad for your son. I guess you should take this as a hint that his family does not like your relationship? IDK.

tinkerspell
by Silver Member on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:01 AM


Quoting 2love:

Oh hell no! Nobody would be going from my house if that's how the invitation was. You don't invite one child and not the other. I'm sorry that's so wrong!
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3lilmonsters88
by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:02 AM
This and take your oldest and do something special

Quoting lilbit04:

Why are you pissed? Not trying to bash but would it be any different if it were a friend fr school and your other child didn't invited?
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giroirk
by Silver Member on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:02 AM
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I wouldn't let either go. It is both of them go or neither go. I can't believe you're SO is okay with this. The only time this is okay is when it is a girls only sleepover. Then of course my little boy can't go. But any other party it is different.
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mommyofjays
by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:02 AM
Have your SO talk to her.
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hp2011
by Ruby Member on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:02 AM


Quoting lilbit04:

Why are you pissed? Not trying to bash but would it be any different if it were a friend fr school and your other child didn't invited?

because SO is like a father to my oldest. oldest's father is not in the picture.

SO's family knows this.

My creator made me strong enough to withstand any fear, terror, or trauma.
My creator gave me the will to fight for any and everything I love.
Yet, my creator made me soft enough to have love and compassion. 
I'm still standing, on my own two feet.
I was born into this world to fight, and it's painful, but I am accepting of the challenge.
 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:02 AM
How olds your child and the birthday kid
beerebelly
by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:02 AM

 How old is your SO's son?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:02 AM
Aw! Poor kid to be excluded. I wouldn't send either of them to the birthday party. If the mom asks about it, tell her you already had plans to do something....as a FAMILY. It was not only rude of her to exclude your one child, it is mean spirited and hurtful.
hp2011
by Ruby Member on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:02 AM


Quoting beerebelly:

 I feel bad for your son. I guess you should take this as a hint that his family does not like your relationship? IDK.

they don't and i'm really beginning to think it's because i'm white.

My creator made me strong enough to withstand any fear, terror, or trauma.
My creator gave me the will to fight for any and everything I love.
Yet, my creator made me soft enough to have love and compassion. 
I'm still standing, on my own two feet.
I was born into this world to fight, and it's painful, but I am accepting of the challenge.
 

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