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Both or none, I think this is messed up.

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SO's niece is having a bday party today at chuck e cheese.

Only SO's son (my youngest) is invited, SO is dropping him off at his sister's house, and 4yo (from my ex) was not even mentioned.

Ass backwards.

Fucked up.

I'm pissed.

ETA:

My son with my ex is 4. Our son is 9mos. We live together. SO is like a father to my oldest. His family knows this. SO and I have been together for 3 years, with a year and a half roughly together pre-baby.

My creator made me strong enough to withstand any fear, terror, or trauma.
My creator gave me the will to fight for any and everything I love.
Yet, my creator made me soft enough to have love and compassion. 
I'm still standing, on my own two feet.
I was born into this world to fight, and it's painful, but I am accepting of the challenge.
 

by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 9:58 AM
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afwifeandmommy3
by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:04 AM
A 9 month old at chicly cheese yep baby wouldn't be going

Quoting hp2011:


Quoting beerebelly:

 How old is your SO's son?

9mos

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Ms.Pteranodon
by Platinum Member on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:04 AM
Ehh you said SO which leads me to believe you are not married.

I don't think I would invite my brothers girlfriends child either. I don't like people randomly coming in and out I my kids life.

Also do y'all have his DS full time? Would it make a difference did the party was on a weekend when his DS was with his mom?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:05 AM
I wouldn't let only one of my kids go. Nope...wouldn't do it.
hp2011
by Ruby Member on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:05 AM

what?

SO and I have a 9mo together.

Quoting Ms.Pteranodon:

Ehh you said SO which leads me to believe you are not married.

I don't think I would invite my brothers girlfriends child either. I don't like people randomly coming in and out I my kids life.

Also do y'all have his DS full time? Would it make a difference did the party was on a weekend when his DS was with his mom?


My creator made me strong enough to withstand any fear, terror, or trauma.
My creator gave me the will to fight for any and everything I love.
Yet, my creator made me soft enough to have love and compassion. 
I'm still standing, on my own two feet.
I was born into this world to fight, and it's painful, but I am accepting of the challenge.
 

wilesmomma
by Gold Member on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:05 AM
Lol! Inviting a 9 month old to chuck e cheese but not a 4 year who could actually enjoy themself. That's terrible.

Quoting hp2011:


Quoting beerebelly:

 How old is your SO's son?

9mos

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:06 AM
In your case I think they both should be invited, however I don't think that every sibling invite means it needs to be for both.
In this case it sounds like a direct snub and to a 4 yo. That's pretty rotten.
hp2011
by Ruby Member on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:06 AM


Quoting :

the 9mo is invited, my 4yo is not.

My creator made me strong enough to withstand any fear, terror, or trauma.
My creator gave me the will to fight for any and everything I love.
Yet, my creator made me soft enough to have love and compassion. 
I'm still standing, on my own two feet.
I was born into this world to fight, and it's painful, but I am accepting of the challenge.
 

2love
by Silver Member on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:06 AM
I've seen you mention this issue before. Maybe it has nothing to do with your race. Don't you think they'd have a issue with your half white child too? Maybe it's time to talk to these bad spirited people. A lot of the stuff they do seems pure evil.

Quoting hp2011:


Quoting beerebelly:

 I feel bad for your son. I guess you should take this as a hint that his family does not like your relationship? IDK.

they don't and i'm really beginning to think it's because i'm white.

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sadee456
by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:06 AM

if you guys are in a serious relationship, both children shld be considered family not just the one. my oldest is not biologically my husbands, but if his sister didn't invite her and treat her like family shit wld go down.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Oct. 13, 2012 at 10:06 AM
This leads me to believe y'all haven't been together that long...

Yea, I definitely wouldn't have invited your child either especially if you are just his flavor of the month.


Quoting hp2011:


Quoting beerebelly:

 How old is your SO's son?

9mos


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