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I'm in the adult industry and I don't want your sneaky guy looking at me either.

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

you may consider me your enemy because I'm a web cam girl, but in truth, I don't want their skanky butts either! those 'sneaky' lying hubbies are the worst clients and they get on my nerves the way they try to come see us when you are out taking the kids to soccer! lying to you guys telling you that they are sick so they can log in and watch us. I think they should be out there cheering their kids on too!

I know some models that ban guys when they admit they are married. so lots of them lie to us too.

for what it's worth, lots of us give the married guys a not as good show (if we take them as clients at all)- we save the good stuff for the guys we like. I've never heard a cam girl say that her favorite is a guy that is sneaking to see her behind the wives back.

granted, I only know what the guys tell me or want to admit. But any guy that can only engage you in a appointment 'when he gets the chance' or leaves a show after 5 minutes when he's paid for 15, is a guy that is sneaking around, and dodging getting caught!

I know that many will still say I'm the devil, and tell yourself that if you wish to make yourself feel better.I feel for any woman who has a guy sneaking around in any way.

just wanted to try to assure the ladies that worry about cam girls will take their men away, trust me, most of us don't want to spend our time on a lying guy either! even if they ARE paying us! the smart ones cam girls anyway :)

Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 13, 2012 at 3:43 PM
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by on Oct. 14, 2012 at 3:34 AM
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by on Oct. 14, 2012 at 8:28 AM

According to what I quoted, it matters to you, and you think people should feel the same. That is exactly what YOU said.

I see nothing wrong with stripping, camming, prostitution, porn or otherwise so I couldn't really care less about the definition.

Quoting Momof5kids84:

This is not about morality. It is about whether or not this profession is a whoredom or not. By definition, it is. It does not matter if I think it's immoral or not.

Quoting Rhiannon92:

Your last reply is exactly why it is about perspective. Your opinion, and I quote "You should have enough self-esteem and self-worth not to feel the need to take your clothes off for money. A person is worth so much more than than that. "

No matter the definition of a whore, your perspective on the morality of such things is not fact. It is your perspective. That's all.

Quoting Momof5kids84:

No, I'm calling it what it is by definition. I copied the definition verbatim. Look it up yourself.

Argue with me about terminology all you want, but a definition is a definition. I'm not lying. I fact checked myself. I went to the Merriam-Webster website. This isn't some random Wikipedia crap.

This is not about my perspective. I don't care if they hump an entire army, but a whore is a whore.

Quoting Rhiannon92:

No, you are calling it what you FEEL it is. The definition of a whore is a prostitute, AKA a person who engages in physical sexual acts for money. Cam models don't touch anyone. Not that I think prostitution is wrong, because I don't. That's a matter of opinion.

 You can see it how you want but you don't have it all figured out. There is nothing wrong with consensual sexual acts or performances, paid for or not. You build it up in your head to be about self worth, but you just don't understand. and that's okay. It's only degrading or belittling if the person doing it feels so. I know women who love working in the adult industry and they do it because they want to, not because they feel the need to take their clothes off for money. It's all about perspective.

Quoting Momof5kids84:

Not a prude. Just calling it what is. You should have enough self-esteem and self-worth not to feel the need to take your clothes off for money. A person is worth so much more than than that.

Quoting Rhiannon92:

 You're still a prude by definition. It doesn't matter that you supposedly know how everyone should live their life. 

Quoting Momof5kids84:

You're still a whore by definition. It doesn't matter that you supposedly have standards.

by Platinum Member on Oct. 14, 2012 at 10:06 AM
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by Anonymous 30 on Oct. 14, 2012 at 10:08 AM

blah blah blahhhhh

by Anonymous 31 on Oct. 14, 2012 at 10:10 AM
Cool. My husband doesn't watch cam girls.
by on Oct. 14, 2012 at 11:52 AM

But you say you treat the married men differently and some women ban men who admit to being married.That means you are assuming they are lying to their wives.

Don't get me wrong, I think it's pretty sweet that you ladies are looking out for those sneaky men....but maybe I paid for my husband to watch that show and you give him a crappy

Quoting Anonymous:

I don't. that's not what I meant. I'm talking to the women who have sneaky guys that are lying about it.I don't like the idea of it and they guys are a pain.

Quoting kjoarcik:

How do you know that married man's wife doesn't know he's watching? My husband can look at all wants I don't care.

by on Oct. 14, 2012 at 11:53 AM
Then maybe you should change your career.
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by on Oct. 14, 2012 at 12:03 PM

well you shouldnt be going around telling other women that they dont know their hubbys. I know mine, i am his everything, and yes i am certian at what he does all the time because we are together all the time. right now hes on the couch, a min ago we woke up together in our bed, later today were going to lunch then to my parents. But more than that he is an incredible man and is 100% committed to our marriage, we have no secrets, i know things about him his parents done even yes its def possible to have an honest man who treats their wife with respect and the marriage with respect. My hubby also laughs at porn and critiques them the whole entire time, which has annoyed his friends in the past. so its not me controlling him its him being himself and if that makes him differ than so be it.

Quoting Anonymous:

don't take it so personally. the comment wasn't really about you in particular, just that lots of guys do things like look at porn and their wives don't know. when you said that he didn't look at it, I just meant that in general there's not really a way of  being absolutely certain of what another person's every move is.


Quoting fostermomoftwo:

oh this argument again. My dh doesnt go onto my laptop we are connected at the hip. he doesnt have a phone that even supports the internet and actually we have a really good marriage, hes not a normal guy, not even close to a normal guy. so how would he go online again? lol. Im sick of people telling me how my marriage is, im not naive, im not stupid but there are actually men out there that dont get there kicks off by watching girls who are way uglier than me get off. We have a hott and steamy sex life and the type of marriage that make others discusted. You prolly wouldnt believe me that he doesnt even notice other women either huh...and thats not me trying to control him thats him doing it.

Quoting Anonymous:

that you know of. a lot of guys come around and hang out in free chat and don't spend anything because they know if they do, their wife will find out.

but I'm glad that your DH isn't a disgusting pathetic man too. too many of them in the world as it is! don't when them raising our world's future!

Quoting fostermomoftwo: hubby isnt one of those discusting pathetic men thankgod.




lucky to have the best husband in the world

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