Controlling?

[Anonymous]

Presuming he can, does your husband want to talk to you constantly while he's at work? Does he get upset if he calls and you don't answer or the line is busy? Would he flip out if he couldn't get ahold of you within 20 mins?

[MamaJane]

He has 3 breaks. He calls me on the first one because he knows I'm busy during the other 2. He doesn't get upset now but there was a time that he did. It was my fault that he felt that way. I've fixed it and he's fixed being upset :)

[Mrs.Kubalabuku]

No.  If he sees me online he might shoot a message if he's bored.  But, for the most part, he knows I have to get my things done so he understands if I don't talk back right away.  Sometimes, rarely on REALLY bad days he'll call.  I always answer when he calls b/c it is so rare.  lol.

No, he wouldn't freak out, unless we had arranged to talk about something at that time.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

How was it your fault? If you don't mind me asking.

Quoting MamaJane:

He has 3 breaks. He calls me on the first one because he knows I'm busy during the other 2. He doesn't get upset now but there was a time that he did. It was my fault that he felt that way. I've fixed it and he's fixed being upset :)

[hollydaze1974]

we text throughout the day...but no flipping out on either side....sometimes it's an hour before I reply....sometimes he doesn't text back for three hours. or not at all

[Anonymous]

yes...yes....no lol

he calls or texts me all flipping day...its annoying I'm like shouldn't you be working? he gives me shit if I don't answer like damn what kept you so busy? lol

[Anonymous]

No, when he's at work, he's busy. I guess that's what makes him so good at his job.

[Beautiful31mom]

Nope. And if I don't answer the phone, my husband will leave me a message. 

[Anonymous]

He calls all the time. It gets on my nerves sometimes. He doesn't get mad if I can't answer though.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

We talk through Facebook most of the day but he gets upset if I don't answer right away. Earlier my dad picked up my dd and I was outside talking to him. Dh happened to call but since I was outside I didn't hear the phone. 13 mins went by between him calling the first time and getting ahold of me. He flipped out and now thinks I'm up to something. :(

Quoting Mrs.Kubalabuku:

No.  If he sees me online he might shoot a message if he's bored.  But, for the most part, he knows I have to get my things done so he understands if I don't talk back right away.  Sometimes, rarely on REALLY bad days he'll call.  I always answer when he calls b/c it is so rare.  lol.

No, he wouldn't freak out, unless we had arranged to talk about something at that time.

[SavannahV]

No, he knows I don't put up with bullshit.