Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

Single mothers **Edited**

Posted by Anonymous
  • 742 Replies
11 moms liked this
If you are a single mother, how did you come to be a single mother? Did your child's father leave? Did you leave your child's father? Did the father pass away? Did you get pregnant during a one night stand? Did you get pregnant via in vetro fertilization while you were single? In vetro while in a homosexual relationship and you and your s/o split up? Were you raped? Did you adopt? Was it a completely different circumstance?

Please only respond sincerely and do not bash. I am simply curious and I will not condone bashing. And obviously, only respond if you are comfortable doing so.

I just want to say that I am so happy that so many of you have been able to overcome your hardships. It's makes me very sad to see how many women are or have struggled in the past. I am blown away by the love and courage that you are showing your children. I respect you all more than I can begin to express in a mommy forum. I will try to keep up with the replies, but as I am getting a large number of responses so quickly, I apologize if I don't get back to you in a timely manner.
Thank you all for being such an inspiration of love and hope to our younger generations.

**Edited again**

First I want to say, thank you all for the overwhelming response to this post.. Thank you for sharing your stories and inspiring so many..
As I stated previously in the response section, my overall goals in this post were to 1) shed some light on the plights and struggles of so many mothers, 2) hopefully show people that no matter what situation they find themselves in there is always hope, sometimes it's just very hard to see, 3) to hopefully show people that people really do care--even an anon that you may not know personally--there is always someone out there pulling for you and hoping that you can overcome whatever tragedy you may find yourself in and go on to find what makes YOU happy, 4) to possibly help someone in need who is struggling right now and needs some inspiring stories to help them find their own courage, 5) and lastly to ask women who have gone through and survived divorce, domestic violence, rape, etc. what resources were useful and what were lacking.

I know that I won't possibly be able to respond to everyone, but I would really appreciate any advice or direction on how other citizens could help build and better the resources currently available.

Thank you again for sharing your stories.. I have a very deep respect for single mothers, the courage and detetmination that so many of you have truly is an inspiration. You are an inspiration to us all and I sincerely hope you all go on to find peace and happiness in your lives.

Thanks again! <3
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 13, 2012 at 5:20 PM
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Replies (1-10):
by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 5:20 PM
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
by ChaChi on Oct. 13, 2012 at 5:21 PM
I was a teenager when I had my first. We broke uo before I found out I was pregnant.
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
by Anonymous 2 on Oct. 13, 2012 at 5:22 PM
8 moms liked this

My ex and I got divorced. He was an alcoholic and wouldn't get help so I decided I didn't want to live my life that way. 

by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 5:22 PM
I fell for the wrong person. He now lives in SC and calls DS once a week. He see's him about once a year. It's just the way things worked in a very complicated situation.
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 5:23 PM
When he retired from the Navy a week after I gave birth, he retired parenting as well.
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 5:24 PM
1 mom liked this
Their dad asked me for a divorce after almost ten years of marriage. He wanted more freedom. ..fewer responsibilities
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 5:25 PM
3 moms liked this

 I kicked my ex out 3 years ago.  Cheater.

by Emerald Member on Oct. 13, 2012 at 5:25 PM
5 moms liked this

 I was a single mom after I left my exhusband. He tried to kill me and my daughter. So we left.

by Emerald Member on Oct. 13, 2012 at 5:26 PM
I was engaged and my ex wanted to have a baby. I was 4 months pregnant when he realized he didn't want to be committed and left me.
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
by on Oct. 13, 2012 at 5:26 PM
I became a single mom after my 12 yr relationship/7 yr marriage ended.
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

close Cafemom Join now to connect to other members! Connect with Facebook or Sign Up Using Email

Already Joined? LOG IN