My dh is a very horny man. I just can't keep up with his sex drive. so we have an agreement that he has my permission to sleep with other women as long as I get to meet her first. I seriously have NO sex drive. We havent had sex in almost 4 years. So he has a couple girls on the side that he has sex with regularly and they understand this arrangement. They are also married women who are not being satisfied in their marriage. It really doesnt bother me because I have no interest in sex. we still love each other and are married and have a family together, we just dont have sex together anymore.