I've tried tellng him, tried starting it, tried making dates for it... I'm at a loss... I've been dealing with this for almost a yr now.
Its like he can go a week without it, but if I go that long, I just doing want to do it- and I force myself to. I hate forcing myself cuz it feels like when I was raped; no emotion, no foreplay, no lube (we have 4 bottles right'next to the bed, but it still doesn't get used)... I'm just closing my eyes, in pain and wishing it was over