since you ladies all know everything I thought you could help. Tell me where to start.
Heres the deal. My boyfriend has 2 kids with 2 different women, the oldest is 12 and lives with us. The younger one lives with her mom in another state. The boyfriend just got a job in june and we are starting to get back on our feet. So last night he tells me he wants to start sending child support to his little girls mom. I am fine with this, he is her dad he should help support her. He hasnt paid any up until now. Anyway my question is how do we go about setting it up, cuz I dont want to just send her cash and then have her get mad at us and come back and say while hes never paid anything. And the amount he is wanting to send her every month is a good chunk of change. More then most moms get if they go to court and file for it. There is no order or nothing saying he has to pay anything, but he wants to take care of his daughter. So any help getting us pointed in the right direction would help