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I'm worried for a friend *Pedophile Question* Update

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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I have a 19 year old friend of a 6 month old girl. Her and BD broke up and now she is seeing a new "man". He's only just 17 years old and a friend of hers younger brother. He came over to met me for the first time, Nice boy, a bit of a smart ass but he's 17yrs old *shrug*.

He sat down on the lounge with my 9 year old sister who has just gotten her first period a few months back due to medication she takes, He was playing with her and tickling her inner thigh area. I sent all the kids to bed straight away I didnt like the situation and went outside to talk with them alone.

Then during a totally normal convo about just nothing in general he told me how his crack addicted mother accussed him of touching his younger brother.

My question are why would a 17yr want to be with a mother of a little girl?

Why tickle her inner thigh or why touch a random child you have never met before?

I have a huge red flag in my gut about him and I just don't like he's a good person, nice on the outside but something is up.

WWYD?

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UPDATE

Okay I understand why I should say something and I most likely will but can anyone see my problem? What if she told him? And he got mad?

 He has my address, My number, knows many kids are here and what ages and sexes they are. He's knows there names... If hes a pedophile then he's already unstable. That worries me.

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 4, 2012 at 8:56 PM
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girlcarrot
by on Nov. 4, 2012 at 8:59 PM

Yeah..not ok. I would tell your friend to leave the guy immediately and tell her what you saw. That doesn't sound right at all.

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AlekD
by on Nov. 4, 2012 at 9:00 PM
That's definitely not somehing to ignore. Follow your intuition.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 4, 2012 at 9:01 PM
I would keep my children away from him
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 4, 2012 at 9:01 PM

I'm worried she'll think I'm being a jealous bitch or something (I'm with my childs father) I just don't think she will listen to me honestly

Quoting girlcarrot:

Yeah..not ok. I would tell your friend to leave the guy immediately and tell her what you saw. That doesn't sound right at all.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 4, 2012 at 9:04 PM

bump

girlcarrot
by on Nov. 4, 2012 at 9:05 PM

I would be honest with her and tell her straight up what you saw. For the well being of her child and her relationship with her child if she does stay with the man-child. I would honestly talk about what you saw. What about your spouse, the childs father? Have you told him about it?


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm worried she'll think I'm being a jealous bitch or something (I'm with my childs father) I just don't think she will listen to me honestly

Quoting girlcarrot:

Yeah..not ok. I would tell your friend to leave the guy immediately and tell her what you saw. That doesn't sound right at all.



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prieta05
by Gold Member on Nov. 4, 2012 at 9:06 PM
But if you have a relationship already then more then anything you have to tell her....
Its better telling her right now then regreting it later. A 17 year old is young but that doesn't mean he cant be a sicko.

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm worried she'll think I'm being a jealous bitch or something (I'm with my childs father) I just don't think she will listen to me honestly


Quoting girlcarrot:


Yeah..not ok. I would tell your friend to leave the guy immediately and tell her what you saw. That doesn't sound right at all.





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doomshroom
by Gold Member on Nov. 4, 2012 at 9:06 PM

eek

TairyHesticle
by on Nov. 4, 2012 at 9:07 PM
Def fishy...
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ittybit2012
by on Nov. 4, 2012 at 9:08 PM
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Trust your gut.  There is no reason for him to be tickling a young girl on the inner thigh.  

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