This has been such a difficult time for me. I've had some severe health issues recently. I've finally met with the surgeon and it looks like a date has been set to correct the problem. Please don't judge me for my story, but I'm hoping a few of you will be able to relate. I don't blame my husband for this, I love him, and the bible does say to honor, obey & submit. I am a god fearing woman just as any good wife should be. He always has been a bit adventurous tho, so when he brought home the "artillery shell", I admit, I was nervous. We had some drinks and he told me to relax. It was rough at first, but I finally got to where I could get into in. Just as I was beginning to enjoy our new toy, boom!! Blown out o-ring :((( It all happened so fast my husband didn't know what hit him!! I told him not to worry and that I was fine and we should finish, but he insisted on taking me to the er. It wasn't until then I realized how severe it was. I've been in diapers for almost two weeks now because I just can't control myself. I have been prescribed meds to help with the pain, but our love life has taken a severe hit over this, its like he's afraid to go down below now. It's really not his fault, I really should have just tried harder to relax. Anyways, the rectal prolapse repair surgery is scheduled for Monday morning, but I'm always soo afraid of going under the knife. Please pray everything goes well for me and recovery will be speedy. If any one else has similar stories they could share just to encourage me a little, I sure would appreciate it!! I could use the kind words and well wishes, thanks!