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embarrassing personal question!(tmi)

Anonymous
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i have only ever given my ex husband a blow job and it was only a hand full of times.I felt like i was doing it wrong and i was scared to ask him.well i am with an amazing guy and he makes me feel safe about everything.i really want to ask him to teach me to give a blow job but dont know how.is that even something you ask a guy?how would i go about asking?please dont make fun of me i know this is stupid.anyway thank you for reading and for suggestions
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 5, 2012 at 7:44 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 5, 2012 at 7:45 PM

I think you are just 'born' knowing.  LOL.  Kidding.  Do it and listen...

wilesmomma
by Gold Member on Nov. 5, 2012 at 7:45 PM
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Seriously get drunk before hand. That's how I got over my fear. Now I'm a pro sober.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 5, 2012 at 8:59 PM

I'm sure he wouldn't mind giving you pointers. And honestly....practice makes perfect. Plus different guys have different preferences (no I am not suggesting you blow several guys to practice, but one guy may like this, one guy may prefer that. ) You can also look around the net for different tips on what you can do better, or honestly pay attention to a porno. The girls on there overexaggerate, but do have some interesting moves.

 

taylamill
by Tayla on Nov. 5, 2012 at 9:00 PM
Just ask. He might like you to do something different. I was scared to asked dh what he liked before and when I finally did he was so glad I asked because he wanted to tell me he likes something else that I didn't know about.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 5, 2012 at 9:02 PM

Ever lick an ice cream or popcicle or one of those huge suckers at the fair? 
It's just like that, but with an added gooey center.

Sure you can ask your partner, men typically don't min giving their girl pointers on how to please them ;) 

Mrs.Bryant1201
by Platinum Member on Nov. 5, 2012 at 9:03 PM

Watch a porno. ;)

momma4vr
by Gold Member on Nov. 5, 2012 at 9:03 PM
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dress up in a school girl outfit and tell him u want xtra credit  in the act of an "oral exam" and let him "teach u" ;) 

kissmiss213
by Platinum Member on Nov. 5, 2012 at 9:03 PM

just ask him what he likes, not if you are doing it wrong.

mamivon2
by Silver Member on Nov. 5, 2012 at 9:06 PM

dont put in your mouth too far, you will gag.. and if you dont want to swallow it let him know in advance so he let you know...

AleaKat
by on Nov. 5, 2012 at 9:06 PM
Just ask
Breath through your nose
Watch out for teeth
I personally love those moments when my husband and I can discuss those kinds of things and be comfortable with our sexuality together and explore together. Those are the kinda if things that make a great relationship.
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