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What would you do if you found condoms...UPDATE

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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in your husbands bag, and your tubes are tied?

I was looking for a lighter in dhs backpack, and found condoms. My tubes have been tied for over 3 years. They are not old, I looked at the expiration date. I haven't confronted him yet. But I know he would deny any infidelity. My train of thought is that condoms are used for one thing only. What would he need them for? He's either cheating, planning to cheat, or has the "just in case" the oppurtunity arises to cheat. I'm pretty upset about this. Thoughts?

Update:
So, things are not looking good. I looked at one of his email addresses, and there was a cell phone activated with that email address, but under a different name. This was the same time frame that money was unaccounted for, which he lied about. I have not confronted him, and I wont until I get more evidence. Hes being sneaky, and I'm even more suspicious now.
Also, I'd like to thank all of you for your honest opinions and kind responces.
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 6, 2012 at 4:31 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 6, 2012 at 4:36 PM
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Blow them up like balloons or put them on bananas and leave them on the counter. " Oh no honey, just thought I would do some decorating today."
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 6, 2012 at 4:36 PM
I would think my SO was cheating. Sorry! ((Hugs!!))
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 6, 2012 at 4:37 PM
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Look for more evidence. That's only the tip of the iceberg. Don't let on that you know anything yet. Stealth.
hip2it
by Silver Member on Nov. 6, 2012 at 4:37 PM

I'd ask some serious questions, and I'd be watching his every move if he denied it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Nov. 6, 2012 at 4:38 PM
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I would start looking to see what else was in his backpack.
ColtsFan1912
by FriendoftheFoot on Nov. 6, 2012 at 4:38 PM

This.

Quoting Anonymous:

Look for more evidence. That's only the tip of the iceberg. Don't let on that you know anything yet. Stealth.


Prayers for Chuck Pagano, Colts coach. Fighting Leukemia.




PEEK05
by on Nov. 6, 2012 at 4:38 PM
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I would be upset.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Nov. 6, 2012 at 4:38 PM
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Me too. I'm sorry darling, good luck. I'd talk to him flat out and let him know you found them and you want to know what he's doing with them. A good way to tell if someone is lying is to watch their eyes, if he's blinking a lot he could be lying. 

Quoting Anonymous:

I would think my SO was cheating. Sorry! ((Hugs!!))


AleaKat
by on Nov. 6, 2012 at 4:38 PM
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It's time to call in the CSI squad!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Nov. 6, 2012 at 4:39 PM
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Install a keylogger on his computer and check phone records. Find more info, can't prove anything with just condoms. He could say he was holding them for a friend.

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