I'm in an open relationship but SO doesn't know it yet ....muajajajajaja
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We have 2 kids and have been living with each other for almost 5yrs now, i just decided this year that i want to be able to do other guys but i havent told him yet. Im having 2 emotional affairs at the same time now but im not gonna tell him. I already told my SO he could have a lover but if he doesnt have one on the side its not my problem. Im just not gonna tell him about my 2 lovers til idk mabye he tells me he has one. I had sex with one of them but it didnt go well because we only had like 10 mins to do it so it was a quickie but we plan on getting together sometime soon. I love the attention from the guys that i get..im not super hot or anything i think im ok or average not like smoking hot! Anyways the other 2 guys dont know about each other they know i live with my SO and 1 is married and the other one has a gf living in another state. I really dont care anymore because im sick of my every day life i never do anything for myself but work my ass off and take care of my kids. 1 is special needs and requires a lot of attention my SO and i are just not connecting the way we used to. I deserve to have some fun so im taking charge and getting what i want.
That's not an open relationship, it's just cheating. You're not being open at all.
Hmm. If I were your husband, I'd probably leave when I found out. Remember that you have no right to be mad at him when this happens. And he may be able to get primary custody of your children since you're destroying your credibility.
How dare you break the most sacred of promises? Poor kids :(
Quoting mommy_ruggs09:
Any open relationship is when both parties agree to it. What your doing is cheating. Just because you told him he could have a lover, doesn't mean that he wants an open. And good job on probably screwing up two other relationships. Suck it up and be an adult.
i doubt the other 2 chicks would ever find out cuz they are not that stupid anyways to tell someone
Quoting CLG122:Hmm. If I were your husband, I'd probably leave when I found out. Remember that you have no right to be mad at him when this happens. And he may be able to get primary custody of your children since you're destroying your credibility.
How dare you break the most sacred of promises? Poor kids :(
we are not legally married just live together
It's only sn open relationship if all parties know about and agree with the other having lovers....You are cheating
leaving baby alone while i do laundry?