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I'm in an open relationship but SO doesn't know it yet ....muajajajajaja

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We have 2 kids and have been living with each other for almost 5yrs now, i just decided this year that i want to be able to do other guys but i havent told him yet. Im having 2 emotional affairs at the same time now but im not gonna tell him. I already told my SO he could have a lover but if he doesnt have one on the side its not my problem. Im just not gonna tell him about my 2 lovers til idk mabye he tells me he has one. I had sex with one of them but it didnt go well because we only had like 10 mins to do it so it was a quickie but we plan on getting together sometime soon.  I love the attention from the guys that i get..im not super hot or anything i think im ok or average not like smoking hot! Anyways the other 2 guys dont know about each other they know i live with my SO and 1 is married and the other one has a gf living in another state. I really dont care anymore because im sick of my every day life i never do anything for myself but work my ass off and take care of my kids. 1 is special needs and requires a lot of attention my SO and i are just not connecting the way we used to. I deserve to have some fun so im taking charge and getting what i want. 

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:30 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:34 PM


Quoting outtamymynd:

Wow. Just let him go. Whore around single. Poor guy.

i would but that would be way too much on our kids especially the older one he loves him to death and i couldnt tear them apart.

702girly
by Gold Member on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:34 PM

That's not an open relationship, it's just cheating. You're not being open at all.

Melbornj
by Platinum Member on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:34 PM
Way to be a great role model for your children. Disgusting!
mommy_ruggs09
by on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:34 PM
Any open relationship is when both parties agree to it. What your doing is cheating. Just because you told him he could have a lover, doesn't mean that he wants an open. And good job on probably screwing up two other relationships. Suck it up and be an adult.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:34 PM


Quoting outtamymynd:

Wow. Just let him go. Whore around single. Poor guy.

he is not a poor guy , he is an asshole to me most of the time anyways

CLG122
by on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:34 PM

Hmm.  If I were your husband, I'd probably leave when I found out.  Remember that you have no right to be mad at him when this happens.  And he may be able to get primary custody of your children since you're destroying your credibility.

How dare you break the most sacred of promises?  Poor kids :(

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:35 PM


Quoting mommy_ruggs09:

Any open relationship is when both parties agree to it. What your doing is cheating. Just because you told him he could have a lover, doesn't mean that he wants an open. And good job on probably screwing up two other relationships. Suck it up and be an adult.

i doubt the other 2 chicks would ever find out cuz they are not that stupid anyways to tell someone 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:36 PM


Quoting CLG122:

Hmm.  If I were your husband, I'd probably leave when I found out.  Remember that you have no right to be mad at him when this happens.  And he may be able to get primary custody of your children since you're destroying your credibility.

How dare you break the most sacred of promises?  Poor kids :(

we are not legally married just live together

wrensong
by Pagan Mother on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:37 PM
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It's only sn open relationship if all parties know about and agree with the other having lovers....You are cheating

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:37 PM


Quoting AngeLnChainZ:

So would you like a cookie for being proud to be a cheater and homewrecker?

im not wrecking no homes

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