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I'm in an open relationship but SO doesn't know it yet ....muajajajajaja

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We have 2 kids and have been living with each other for almost 5yrs now, i just decided this year that i want to be able to do other guys but i havent told him yet. Im having 2 emotional affairs at the same time now but im not gonna tell him. I already told my SO he could have a lover but if he doesnt have one on the side its not my problem. Im just not gonna tell him about my 2 lovers til idk mabye he tells me he has one. I had sex with one of them but it didnt go well because we only had like 10 mins to do it so it was a quickie but we plan on getting together sometime soon.  I love the attention from the guys that i get..im not super hot or anything i think im ok or average not like smoking hot! Anyways the other 2 guys dont know about each other they know i live with my SO and 1 is married and the other one has a gf living in another state. I really dont care anymore because im sick of my every day life i never do anything for myself but work my ass off and take care of my kids. 1 is special needs and requires a lot of attention my SO and i are just not connecting the way we used to. I deserve to have some fun so im taking charge and getting what i want. 

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:30 PM
Replies (41-50):
jynkx
by on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:45 PM

yet you have stayed with him.

Quoting Anonymous:

he is not a little angel ! he was physically abusive towards me and is still emotionally abusive ,he beat me in front of  our oldest & i was in the hospital thanks to him 2 years ago but that changed me completely i believe i am a sociopath because i have lost all sense of respect for him after what he did to me. my son was only 2 at that time and it changed him also he had trouble sleeping and i think it caused his brain to go crazy also because he started changing and he was finally diagnosed with autism this year and i blame him for that. 

Quoting Robsessed98:

Cant believe any real woman would be proud and brag about being a lowlife, immoral piece of shit, but if you have no self-respect, self-worth, conscience or decency about yourself, then go have yourself a ball. Just dont come back here crying and moaning about the SO who is far too good for you dumping your whore ass when he finds out. No, on second thought, do come back here whining and crying when it happens so I can laugh my ass off at you getting what you deserve!



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mommy_ruggs09
by Bronze Member on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:45 PM
Then leave him if he's abusive. You think it's better to have your kids see daddy beat mommy then it is to see mommy with a bunch of other guys? You don't make any sense.


Quoting Anonymous:

he is not a little angel ! he was physically abusive towards me and is still emotionally abusive ,he beat me in front of  our oldest & i was in the hospital thanks to him 2 years ago but that changed me completely i believe i am a sociopath because i have lost all sense of respect for him after what he did to me. my son was only 2 at that time and it changed him also he had trouble sleeping and i think it caused his brain to go crazy also because he started changing and he was finally diagnosed with autism this year and i blame him for that. 

Quoting Robsessed98:

Cant believe any real woman would be proud and brag about being a lowlife, immoral piece of shit, but if you have no self-respect, self-worth, conscience or decency about yourself, then go have yourself a ball. Just dont come back here crying and moaning about the SO who is far too good for you dumping your whore ass when he finds out. No, on second thought, do come back here whining and crying when it happens so I can laugh my ass off at you getting what you deserve!



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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:46 PM

we are all just in it for the thrill of it 

Quoting mommy_ruggs09:

And btw an emotional relationship doesn't involve sex or hooking up. But I really hope for your kids sake that they don't see mommy bringing other guys around that aren't daddy. And I'm pretty sure the men you just called stupid will leave in the end because they will smarten up.


Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting mommy_ruggs09:

Any open relationship is when both parties agree to it. What your doing is cheating. Just because you told him he could have a lover, doesn't mean that he wants an open. And good job on probably screwing up two other relationships. Suck it up and be an adult.

i doubt the other 2 chicks would ever find out cuz they are not that stupid anyways to tell someone 



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:46 PM


Quoting xXxLillithxXx:

Sounds like you "deserve" alot but your SO doesn't even deserve common courtesy.

nope he is an asshole

angeleyes16
by Silver Member on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:46 PM

What's "open" about that relationship?

mommy_ruggs09
by Bronze Member on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:47 PM
You sound like you should be a 21 year old that all she does is party and does what ever you want. You have 2 kids one who NEEDS mommy. How old are you?


Quoting Anonymous:

we are all just in it for the thrill of it 

Quoting mommy_ruggs09:

And btw an emotional relationship doesn't involve sex or hooking up. But I really hope for your kids sake that they don't see mommy bringing other guys around that aren't daddy. And I'm pretty sure the men you just called stupid will leave in the end because they will smarten up.





Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting mommy_ruggs09:

Any open relationship is when both parties agree to it. What your doing is cheating. Just because you told him he could have a lover, doesn't mean that he wants an open. And good job on probably screwing up two other relationships. Suck it up and be an adult.

i doubt the other 2 chicks would ever find out cuz they are not that stupid anyways to tell someone 





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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:47 PM

yes because i had no support what so ever, if i went to a shelter i would have no way of buying a car, staying at my job and no way of getting anywhere

Quoting jynkx:

yet you have stayed with him.

Quoting Anonymous:

he is not a little angel ! he was physically abusive towards me and is still emotionally abusive ,he beat me in front of  our oldest & i was in the hospital thanks to him 2 years ago but that changed me completely i believe i am a sociopath because i have lost all sense of respect for him after what he did to me. my son was only 2 at that time and it changed him also he had trouble sleeping and i think it caused his brain to go crazy also because he started changing and he was finally diagnosed with autism this year and i blame him for that. 

Quoting Robsessed98:

Cant believe any real woman would be proud and brag about being a lowlife, immoral piece of shit, but if you have no self-respect, self-worth, conscience or decency about yourself, then go have yourself a ball. Just dont come back here crying and moaning about the SO who is far too good for you dumping your whore ass when he finds out. No, on second thought, do come back here whining and crying when it happens so I can laugh my ass off at you getting what you deserve!




xXxLillithxXx
by on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:48 PM

And someone who stays with an asshole is...?

Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting xXxLillithxXx:

Sounds like you "deserve" alot but your SO doesn't even deserve common courtesy.

nope he is an asshole


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:49 PM

he doesn't do it anymore but that is what changed me completely . he begged me to stay blah blah blah to keep our family together but w/e i gave him another chance because i didnt want my kids to have no father like i did.

Quoting mommy_ruggs09:

Then leave him if he's abusive. You think it's better to have your kids see daddy beat mommy then it is to see mommy with a bunch of other guys? You don't make any sense.


Quoting Anonymous:

he is not a little angel ! he was physically abusive towards me and is still emotionally abusive ,he beat me in front of  our oldest & i was in the hospital thanks to him 2 years ago but that changed me completely i believe i am a sociopath because i have lost all sense of respect for him after what he did to me. my son was only 2 at that time and it changed him also he had trouble sleeping and i think it caused his brain to go crazy also because he started changing and he was finally diagnosed with autism this year and i blame him for that. 

Quoting Robsessed98:

Cant believe any real woman would be proud and brag about being a lowlife, immoral piece of shit, but if you have no self-respect, self-worth, conscience or decency about yourself, then go have yourself a ball. Just dont come back here crying and moaning about the SO who is far too good for you dumping your whore ass when he finds out. No, on second thought, do come back here whining and crying when it happens so I can laugh my ass off at you getting what you deserve!




Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 7, 2012 at 1:50 PM

i am 21 ! i have never even been to a party last time i had a drink was over 2yrs ago. I don't do anything for myself but maybe get my eyebrows done if that counts. I work full time and so does my SO and we work opposite shifts. So i never have any time off to myself. 

Quoting mommy_ruggs09:

You sound like you should be a 21 year old that all she does is party and does what ever you want. You have 2 kids one who NEEDS mommy. How old are you?


Quoting Anonymous:

we are all just in it for the thrill of it 

Quoting mommy_ruggs09:

And btw an emotional relationship doesn't involve sex or hooking up. But I really hope for your kids sake that they don't see mommy bringing other guys around that aren't daddy. And I'm pretty sure the men you just called stupid will leave in the end because they will smarten up.





Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting mommy_ruggs09:

Any open relationship is when both parties agree to it. What your doing is cheating. Just because you told him he could have a lover, doesn't mean that he wants an open. And good job on probably screwing up two other relationships. Suck it up and be an adult.

i doubt the other 2 chicks would ever find out cuz they are not that stupid anyways to tell someone 






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