They are so sure about it..
I think that it is because it is much easier , and more than likely, much better and conducive to happiness in the moment to believe that the person they made such a huge commitment to takes their vows as seriously as they do. It would suck to be constantly worried about the possibility of infidelity. It would suck to constantly question the integrityand the morals of the one you love....However, personally I do not hold anyone in such high esteem that I feel that they are above being human. Sometimes the people you really love and trust fuck up in a major way. Then you're forced to reconcile the fact that maybe you just didn't know that person the way you thought you did. That thought terrifies some.
Never say never. I'm not one who would leave over it, but I think it's unlikely.
Because they don't marry scum bags?
How does your husband feel about being equated to a walking penis that just has to ram himself into any available squishy hole?
My husband is very big on loyalty, he's also been cheated on in the past. We didn't rush into bed together, so I know he isn't an 18 year old kid that just has to have it at all times. We have more than enough sex, and we are happy. He would not trade our family for a one night stand. We are very open with each other on everything. Him cheating would be completely out of character for him. Some people, just aren't like that (I am not a cheater and he knows I would never do it). How would you feel if your husband constantly felt that you would cheat on him 'in the right situation'?
Quoting Acid:Because they don't marry scum bags?
You are so right!!!!! --coming from someone that once married a cheating scumbag.
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