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could my husband be a pedophile?

Anonymous
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i came home from staying the night at a girlfriend's house out of town and couln't find my husband. he knew i was headed home. the house was quiet, so i finally figured he must have fallen asleep in the girls' room when he tried to get the to sleep. 

i found him between my two year old and six year old, uncovered and completely naked!! i smacked him and told him to get out. he was "shocked" that i was mad about that silly trivial thing after he cleaned the house for me! after him accusing me of being molested as a child, because that is the only reasonable explanation as to why i am this upset, and several other horrible insults, i told him i wanted to separate. 

he can't be here with my children if he thinks that is okay behavior. by the way, i have made it very clear, i am not okay with him being nude around my older daughter. After this incident, the same goes for both. 

he said he was half asleep, wasn't thinking. but, why be naked at all when you know you have to take care of the kids!! id have never thought he could do anything wrong to the girls, but he planted that doubt.. these are my children. i would rather him hate me for thinking such things than be someone who looks back and realizes that all the signs were riht there.

i cant believe this is my life now...

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:29 AM
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CrickettyBoo
by Silver Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:30 AM
is he their dad?
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harpsichord
by Platinum Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:31 AM
:O
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mamaxkitty
by Gold Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:31 AM
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ewww i'd freak out too. I dont see a reason as to why he would be naked between them..........

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:32 AM
Wtf? If that's out of the ordinary behavior in your family I definitely would freak out too.
babyboy117
by on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:32 AM
oh wow.. did you check your kid's genitals for any signs? I wouldn't be cool with that either.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:32 AM

Yes, sounds like it. 

kagdwg09
by Bronze Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:33 AM
I definitely would have acted the same way!! O.o
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Sammybby09
by Gold Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:33 AM
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I'm sorry hun. I really hope he didn't do anything to those poor girls :/

Its good that you put your foot down and didn't give him another opportunity.!
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babyboy117
by on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:33 AM
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and I would ask the 6 year old if he touched her inappropriately..
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:34 AM
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I would have freaked and probably called the cops. Don't let him talk to the girls, take them in to the CHILDRENS hospital, they have specialized people who can check for things and people who will talk to them. GL

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