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could my husband be a pedophile?

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i came home from staying the night at a girlfriend's house out of town and couln't find my husband. he knew i was headed home. the house was quiet, so i finally figured he must have fallen asleep in the girls' room when he tried to get the to sleep. 

i found him between my two year old and six year old, uncovered and completely naked!! i smacked him and told him to get out. he was "shocked" that i was mad about that silly trivial thing after he cleaned the house for me! after him accusing me of being molested as a child, because that is the only reasonable explanation as to why i am this upset, and several other horrible insults, i told him i wanted to separate. 

he can't be here with my children if he thinks that is okay behavior. by the way, i have made it very clear, i am not okay with him being nude around my older daughter. After this incident, the same goes for both. 

he said he was half asleep, wasn't thinking. but, why be naked at all when you know you have to take care of the kids!! id have never thought he could do anything wrong to the girls, but he planted that doubt.. these are my children. i would rather him hate me for thinking such things than be someone who looks back and realizes that all the signs were riht there.

i cant believe this is my life now...

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:29 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:34 AM
Weird! I would've reacted the same as you
mybabytristan
by on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:35 AM
ummmmm.......
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:35 AM
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YES. You need to call the police and file a formal complaint. You need to protect your kids now!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:35 AM
If you separate, you'd be giving him more time alone with him via visitation. Are you comfortable with that?
RLT2
by on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:35 AM
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Completely not normal. It's just not, sorry.

kikibix
by Platinum Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:35 AM
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Not normal behaviour at all.  I can't imagine any man I know thinking that's remotely appropriate.

kaysha
by Ruby Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:35 AM
I don't blame you for feeling this way. I would be livid.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:35 AM

Does he normally sleep naked? If he a hard sleeper? Is there a chance the kids woke up and snuck into your room and he didn't notice?

LoveVenus
by Silver Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:36 AM

the fuck..i get all hell bent to...did u ask the girls?if not try asking them and not in away that they will feel nervous or scared to tell you :)

lauren.m
by Platinum Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 12:36 AM
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My dh wont even be in just boxers around the kids and has never slept in their beds. I would flip out if i came home to that!
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