could my husband be a pedophile?

[Anonymous]

i came home from staying the night at a girlfriend's house out of town and couln't find my husband. he knew i was headed home. the house was quiet, so i finally figured he must have fallen asleep in the girls' room when he tried to get the to sleep. 

i found him between my two year old and six year old, uncovered and completely naked!! i smacked him and told him to get out. he was "shocked" that i was mad about that silly trivial thing after he cleaned the house for me! after him accusing me of being molested as a child, because that is the only reasonable explanation as to why i am this upset, and several other horrible insults, i told him i wanted to separate. 

he can't be here with my children if he thinks that is okay behavior. by the way, i have made it very clear, i am not okay with him being nude around my older daughter. After this incident, the same goes for both. 

he said he was half asleep, wasn't thinking. but, why be naked at all when you know you have to take care of the kids!! id have never thought he could do anything wrong to the girls, but he planted that doubt.. these are my children. i would rather him hate me for thinking such things than be someone who looks back and realizes that all the signs were riht there.

i cant believe this is my life now...

[Anonymous]

Yep. Being biological child/parent doesn't stop sexual abuse. My mother was raped by her dad.

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Quoting Anonymous:

Oh hell no! Please check your daughter for any signs of abuse. Or call the police. Take her to the hospital. Anything. You need to do it now. Get off cafemom.

Quoting Anonymous:

Oh my goodness. This filled up really fast! 

He is my two year old's father, not my six year olds

You do know that being a bio child doesn't stop a pedo...Kids get molested by their father's all the time. 

[prdmomnarmywife]

Well if your leaving him& have that concern you need to take them to the hospital & file a report . Or when he files for custody your word will mean nothing and he will have them over night alone often . And at that point if they say anything it will not matter the judge will think you are telling them to say it .

[Anonymous]

I would have freaked out & more than likely ended up in jail.
There's no excuse to be laying in their beds naked. Hell IMO even if he's in his bed naked & they come in he needs to make them go out till he gets something on.
Sick bastard!

[JamminOutMama]

Gross wtf. I'd be pissed

[Anonymous]

IF THIS WAS ME I WOULD NOT REPEAT NOT BE ON CAFEMOM WONDERING OH GEE GOLLY DO YOU THINK MY HUBBYS A PEDOPHILE UMMM APPARENTLY HE IS IF HE IS NAKED WITH 2 YOUNG CHILDREN IN BED WITH THEM TAKE THEM INTO THE HOSPITGAL OR CALL THE POLICE AND FILE A COMPLAINT LET THEM KNOW THE SITUATION INSTEAD OF REFRESHING THE PAGE FOR RESPONSES !! AND IF THIS IS NOT TRUE MAY YOU BURN IN HELL FOR SURE 

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Jesus, this group is a real piece of work. 

This is not about attention! I am shocked. I don't think he'd touch them. I really don't. But, I have that doubt in my mind now. I am not waking my child. She will get her sleep and I will take her tomorrow. 

And maybe he isn't a pedophile. That was my thouht, how could he be so stupid. But, you know what, I don't care if this IS posted anonymously. Shame on you for sitting here and judging me. You have no idea what is going on in my head. And I said I kicked him out. He is gone. I am not an idiot!!! 

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Thanks for all your support,. you're fantastic. 

[Anonymous]

Eww but even if hes not the thought of that would be in my head forever..U gonna stay with him and have sex with him?? not knowing 100%..Then them kids need taken away from both of you!

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Um... no... wtf?

[Anonymous]

If it was me Id be in there grabbing him up by the dick and escorting his nasty ass to the police station! I have 2 daughters and one on the way and Id shoot that motherfucker on the spot if I came home to that!